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Oral sex from a transgender

I am a straight male
5 Days ago I went to a club and got so drunk, I start kissing a transgender for about 1 min, then we went to the bathroom, she started giving me a BJ which lasted for about 1-2 min as I had a cut on my pennis due to dry rubbing myself earlier that day, so I couldnt take it more than that.

after that I kinda grinded my penis up her ***, but I am 90% sure I didnt get it in, would I remember getting it in? would it get in so easly that I wouldnt know? I also put my finger on her anus

All of the previously mentioned was unprotected due to my stupidty, and I am freaking out here.

what is the risk of the above mentioned items with the cut I had on my penis, should I get tested? or there is no risk from what I mentioned.
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Thanks man for your help, I was dying of fear here
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No risk.
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So lets say I didnt penetrate at all, 100%, just kissed, and got a BJ with the cut I had, and thats it, and touched the anus with my finger for a sec, the whole thing took about 3-5 mins, that makes it negligible risk or low risk?
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13276481 tn?1451146767
Sorry I can't answer your questions about anal sex, not my experience.
It would stand to reason that you would know.
But if you're unsure, especially being you were drinking, have a 4th generation test at 4 weeks. No need to wait 12 for a antibody only test.
And if you did penetrate, from what you describe, it was so brief your risk sounds low.
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no I wasnt raped, I am afraid that I inserted my peniis in her anus, I am not sure if I would feel doing that and will it require a lot of force?
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she had boobs and a dickk! I wanted to know would I know if I pentrated her anus? or would it be easy and I wouldnt notice, I have never had anal before, I am so freaked up and to test I have to wait for 12 weeks, and I cannt even sleep for the past 5 days
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