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Oral sex

I went to a message parlor today. The lady put baby oil on me. Then she wanted to have sex for money. I said oral only. She got a condom that was tucked in her braw. The condom was wraped in a napkin. She grabed my penis and put the condom on. She gave me oral for a max of 2 minutes and I came. I she took the condom out with some napkins. I touched the bed and felt liquid in my hand. I asked her if it was her vaginal fluids and she said it was baby olid but I am not sure. With the same hand I grabed a napkin and put some alcohol ( she gave me a bottle of alcohol to use) I clean my penis head. Again I grabed napkin and with some alcohol on it and rubbed it against my penis hole. I felt the sting. Now I am worried, if the condom was any good, had holes, expired, type of condom, and brand. In addition I am worried might have mistakenly put some vaginal fluids in my penis and penis hole. What do you guys think. Please help.
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You would have known if there were holes the condom would have broke. If the condom was expired and old, but did not rip you may still have protection. And as EVERYONE on here will tell you....you could have had oral sex unprotected and it is still NO RISK for HIV.
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Bump on last question.
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I am sorry. It is that you and Lizzie Lou are the only ones I can turn to for a straight forward answer.
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Last question promise!
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But I don't understand. If I hand vaginal fluids in my hand and fingers and I RUBBED INTO MY PEE HOLE / URETHRA ins't that mucus membrane. Thit I potentially inject the virus into my pee hole and attach to mucus membrane. Ins't that a mode of transmission????
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Thank you
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there is NO reason for you to keep repeating the same thing over and over and over.  your "whole story" was read in it's entirety BEFORE you were assessed.

sexually speaking...transmission requires penetration of a PENIS INSIDE A VAGINA / ANUS.  transmission does not take place in the manner in which you are describing.

as teak has told you NUMEROUS times...YOU HAD NO RISK.
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NO, no, no and NO.
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But if her vaginal fluids got inside me because of me attempting to clean my pee hole (since I touched liquid in bed, probably her vaginal fluids) OR when she touched the condom (potential vaginal fluids in her fingers) and then put the part she touched over my penis, world that be a mode of transmission? Plus the silent herpes??
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by Teak , 5 hours ago
You didn't have a risk.

by Teak , 4 hours ago
No risk.
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Please read my immediate post above. Plus did I have an EXPOSURE of HIV that would warrant testing????
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I don't know if it was vaginal fluids that I touched. But I guess I am wondering if it matter if it was fresh liquids. I do regret my actions. I only had oral given to me for less than to minutes. Then I touch the liquids then myself in the pee hole when I was cleaning myself with the tissue with alcohol. Plus I believe I have herpes to make it worse.
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Again, reread the responses that you have been given.
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What do you think that I touched a liquid and that it is vaginal fluid and that when I tried to clean my pee hole deep I inserted vaginal fluid in me. Plus when she put the condom on me ( an unverified condom as stated above) she touched the inside tip of condom and got vaginal fluids on my penis that way.
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No risk.
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Sorry teak. I guess I am just worried. I hope when you said no risk you read my whole story. So you still think no risk? I higly value your opinion.
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How about start reading the replies you have been given.
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Well how about the potential vaginal fluids when I tried to clean my penis and penis hole?? Thank you??
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Actally I don't know if I am having a silent outbreak as today I felt I slight tingle in my penis hole area. So after reading my whole story what is my risk????
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You didn't have a risk.

HIV is transmitted by;
Unprotected anal and vaginal sex
Sharing works with other IV drug abusers
Mother to child.
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Well like I said I did clean my penis. Except I don't know if I got vaginal fluids in my penis hole. Plus i believe I have herpes ( no outbreak) and cleaned my penis after touching liquids in the bed. Plus all that happened? What is my risk. Thanks teak.  
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Had the condom failed you wouldn't have needed to look at to know it failed, which wouldn't have mattered on oral sex. Oral sex is not a means of HIV transmission.

HIV is unable to reproduce outside its living host (unlike many bacteria or fungi, which may do so under suitable conditions), except under laboratory conditions, therefore, it does not spread or maintain infectiousness outside its host.
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I am worried because Attempted to clean my penis and I know I rubbed my penis hole deep. So I am afraid I got some vaginal fluids in there. Plus since she had the condom in a napkin/tissue I don't know what kind it is? What brand? Is it the good quality or cheap. Is it old. Expired? Since she took out the condom after I finished by covering with some tissues I did not properly inspect it to make sure it had no tears or break. Please read my whole story.
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It makes no difference if the condom is old if it did not break you had no risk
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