PLEASE assess this!

I have stated before I had sex around 2 months ago, but have suffered symptoms since but don't know if it is from HIV or anxiety symptoms.

Firstly, i had muscles aches, sore throat, slightly swollen glands, NO FEVER, a bit of dirahhea, could this be down to anxiety??

However just before i went for my HIV 6 week test (negative) i started to get a few spots on my back when the spine sticks out.They were not really red, but now at 8 weeks they look a bit red (maybe because of friction or me touching them)
I have had shingles before and was wondering if HIV and shingles are connected, or if it is the stress I have been having that has led to them occuring again?
Also, it feels like my penis keeps leaking, took some cream and it was fine when i put the antibiotic cream on, but you have to stop after a while and it feels like its leaking again
do i have an infection?

Someone please give me some advice!!

[dictionary_master23]

can anyone help?

[Vance2335]

Sure, read your old post and responces given to you.
You have been told you did not have a risk either accept it or don't but we can't keep going in circles. We are not here to lie to you about your risk.

[dictionary_master23]

I know but there are a lot of people out there that want to give others HIV.
Im just worried that he could have tampered with the condom before it was opened or when he was stretching and pulling it
What i was asking was what is my risk if the condom had a little tear in it and when he ejaculated some of it went inside me

so sorry, i bet you get annoyed by people like me all the time but i am worried :(

[Vance2335]

As I told you, the condom does not get little holes in it or anything like that. If it breaks there is nothing left of it.

And your comment about "a lot of people out there that want to give others HIV" is disrespectful and hurtful to people with HIV and just plain dumb.

We have given you a lot of help here, but we have no patience for word like you have said above.

[dictionary_master23]

I'm sorry if I did offend anyone, just that person has knocked me for six

I have read on sites where some people want others to be in the same situation as them so someone else is going through it, not them against the world...VERY SORRY

All i was trying to ask was:
1)  say if there was a pin prick hole, or
2) the condom did have a little tear in, say it didnt form a big tear, but becuase i may not have noticed it....
am i still at risk?

many thanks again

[Vance2335]

As I told you, the condom does not get little holes in it or anything like that. If it breaks there is nothing left of it.

I just said this above. Either accept it and move on or don't but we are not going around in circles. You have been told no risk over and over. We do not continue to give you the same advice over and over. Either post in the anxiety community to help you deal with this or seek a therapist but we are done with this thread and anything further will be reported based on the rules of the forum.