Please ***** my risk

Hello Doc,
                  Could you please ***** my risk? About 9 weeks ago, I went to a strip club and took couple of lap dances. During the lap dance, Stripper (23 years old) touched/rubbed her thongs (in the front portion) couple of times. During the lap dance, she gave me the hand job and I sucked her breasts. After hand job, she gave me some paper towels to clean my penis. She cleaned her hands with the paper towels. Before she gave me the lap dance there was about 30 minutes gap between me and the previous customer. About 8 and half weeks ago, I went to the same strip club and took couple of lap dances with the same stripper. This time she put my penis in between her breast and started rubbing. During this process some of my pre-*** and *** fell on her breasts. She cleaned it with the paper towels. I did the same thing. Before she gave me the lap dance, there was about 20 minutes gap between me and the next customer.

1. Am I at risk as far as HIV or any STD is concerned?
2. My concern is her virginal fluids as she touched her thong couple of times, some how touching my penis during the hand job. Can I get HIV in this way?
3. Since she rubbed my penis against her breast and some ***/pre-*** fell on her breast, Is 15 minutes sufficient for the HIV virus to die if previous customer did the same thing. Remember she cleaned her beast so I assume she did the same thing after previous customer.
4. Same question here but this time I sucked her breast, would HIV virus die in 15 minutes. Both the times she cleaned her breast with the paper towel.
5. I had fever (101F) 10 days after these incidents; do you think this is some thing to do with HIV? I have no other health issues since then.
6. At 8 and half weeks mark, I took HIV rapid test. It was negative. Is this test conclusive for my type of situation?
7. Is it safe to resume sex with my wife?

Thanks a lot.

[jhguy011]

You cannot contract HIV from the activities you described.