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Please Help Help..... Extremely Worried....

My HIV worries. Exact Scenerio during a lapdance

1. A finger insertion into her vagina (seriously for a second or two). Vaginal fluid was felt on my finger after removal. Changes of HIV infection by this alone. No known scrathes or cuts possibly a hangnail.

2. Massaged clitoris with right hand fingers, no insertion but worried about vaginal fluid traces or possibly blood traces that occured from body grinding from the lapdance and then touching my penis with these hands. After massaging the clitoris I then put my finger inside her. Vaginal fluid on this finger and then moments later. lets say 30 seconds later I touched/rubbed my penis for about 30 seconds with my left hand but touched my penis with my left hand that previously had vaginal fluid on it. Since it was a lap dance with heavy grinding (clothes on) chances that fluid on my fingers could have entered through penis due to possible abrasions or redening during lap dance. No cuts on penis but may have been tender from lap dance grinding.

My absolute main worry is HIV but also I am worried about STD's. I had a itchy scrotem which I never had before and now even more paranoid. Need re-assurance. Please respond to put my mind at ease...

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Absolute zero risk for HIV, both because it can't be transmitted that way and because the girl probably didn't have it. The risk for any other STD's is slim to none.
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186166 tn?1385259382
if i were a male AND had to resort to a lapdance to get my cookies...i'd probably have a "itchy scrotum" after all that grinding, as you say.
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There are tons of questions like yours to doctor H that you could have checked out in the forums. Zero risk at all.
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