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Please Help!!!!

My problem is this!!

2 months before or more, i had Protected sex with a prostitute.
Oral and anal sex. But it happened a problem. When i was taking off my penis from her, it happened that the condom stayed half inside and half ouside, and the penis was exposed when i taked off. And i get scared off very much. When i go back at home after 1 hour, i cleaned the headpenis with alcohool 70% and it burnd very much.

And before 4 weeks i get little red rashes on my back, i dont know if they was from this thing or other, it was like 9-10 rashes on my back, and two up in my bottom. They go away after 1 week with no madication with nothing.
2 weeks before the rashes i had headache like 1 hour, i dont know if it was of the window of the car that i left opened or other. anyway, I dont have fever, or this things. Only that im very stressed out and i think for it all the day, and cant sleep. And now i'm obsessed if i have swallen glands, it did not hurt but when i look to the mirror it seems that in the right it is a little more red and big that the other, and i feel like i hav much saliva in my throat but no pain.

Do you think that i can be in a risk of taking hiv when i taked out my penis from her without condom on it ?
Im soooo much scared, and im scared too to do the test.

Please help me with any response!!! Thank you!!
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Your symptoms are not hiv related and for the 3rd time now you never had a risk of hiv infection or any other STD,s-- your safe.Stop stressing.
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Thank you very much for your response. I get relaxed a little.
Anyway before some days when i drinked 2 glasses of beer, i went to urinate and i saw that the foreskin of the penis get redness, and when i lookd to the mirror i saw that i had red spots on my gums, they still are now after 3 days but are not more that much redness. And that day i went imediatlly to a clinic to make a test, but it had test only for HIV and Siphilisis, and both where Negative.. And from the day of SEX and the TEST has past 2 months and 8 days..

I want to say something that i didnt say.. Before of this i get an STD from my girlfriend without condom. She get cheked and she was with Gardnerella. But im not sure it was only that, becouse i had itchy urinating, red spots on penis and a white liquid. And now im understanding that i get Metronidazole for nothing becouse i thought i had only Gardnerella. And for this thing i get treated 2 times becouse i thought it was not cured very well..  And these final days when i finish the second treatment with metronidazole ( for nothing i think ) after 2 days i drinked beer and i had this things... Redness of my foreskin of penis, and this little red spots on my gums..  It can be reactions of taking metronidazole 2 times ? or the std that i have didnt go away and it get reaction with alcohool ?

Sorry it can be not writet well all this but im very scared and i dont know what to do, until i will get tested for all STD's..

So my question is this, The red spots it can be from Metronidazole, or the Std that i dont know what is, or HIV ????

PLEASE!!!
I WILL APPRECIATE VERY MUCH!!
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You never had a risk, next time keep hold of the condom when withdrawing.
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your condom came off during withdrawal and you "willie" was protected.

no risk
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Depends on the incident you described above you chances of contracting HIV is very very low. At the end, it was protected sex (Most of the time). And you dont even know your partner's HIV status. So Relax. If you want a piece of mind, my best advise to you to get tested at 3 month mark with a stand alone antibody test. But i am sure it will be negative. Lets talk about the symptoms you had: ARS symptoms always occur in couple weeks, usually 10-14 days after the exposure. And the most common ones are Fever (101+), sore throat and body rash. And 70% of the people get these 3 at the same time. Your symptoms are not worrisome of HIV but most likely because of anxiety. As mentioned before, your chance of contacting HIV from this event is extremely low.
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