Please help, need some suggestions

Hello I’ve been reading some of the forums over the weekend and I’ve decided to post my dilemma.
On Nov 21 I had protected sex with a guy, but unprotected oral which sperm did get in mouth and swallowed. On Nov 25 I had sex with a guy that I’ve had sex with before back in July. On the July encounter we had unprotected oral and protected sex but towards the end he took condom off and we finished up unprotected he pulled out and ejaculated in hand. After that I had a yeast infection nothing serious but did have a test done for all STD’s which came back negative. Back to the November 25 encounter I had unprotected sex and oral with him releasing while inside.  Afterwards no major symptoms just yeast infection/thin white discharge that cleared up. Had sex again with same person on December 22nd unprotected. On December 26 my left tonsil became swollen and was covered in white material. My left lymph node became swollen and I had an earache on the left side of course due to infection. I went to the Dr and tested negative for Strep and they have me some amoxicillin. Which I didn’t take because I don’t like antibiotics and they give me yeast infections. So within a week it cleared up, but then my right tonsil did the same thing swelled up white material cover it. I went to the ER and they checked for strep and mono all came back negative and they gave me a steroid shot to bring down inflammation and pain pills. Then I started to take the amoxicillin. Which of course gave me a yeast infections, but up until then I had an ongoing thin white discharge thing going on. Since then I have had recurrent sores in mouth one on the inner check, back of mouth, corner of lip inside, and one on roof of mouth. I’ve had weird stabbing pain in my arms and tingling feeling in my fingers. I thought maybe it was carpel tunnel or something. Back in January when I orgasm I get this piercing headache that starts in the back of head and shots all the way around and lingers for a good 3-4 days. And every time I try to have another orgasm same thing. Orgasms where brought on by the way through masturbation, I’ve haven’t had sex since Dec 22. I have freaked out about having HIV so I have had the following test:

12/6 STD testing gon/syphilis/chlamydia/Herpes/HIV= Neg
12/8 HIV Neg
1/26 HIV Neg
1/30 gon/chlamydia= Neg
2/09 HIV DNA, PCR/HIV AB
       HIV DNA by PCR
       HIV DNA RT by PCR- Negative
       HIV-1 DNA not detected
2/10 Rapid Neg

So I know that means I’m negative so far. It’s not quite the 3 month waiting period but could I be okay to say it’s somewhat conclusive.  At this point I don’t believe I have HIV, but will follow up in the end of March. BUT I know I have something, it’s not like me to get random swollen tonsils with white gunk, ongoing canker sores, and ongoing BV and yeast infections. My OB put me on some meds for BV, but as soon as I finished Rx I started to have a thick clear slimy discharge, which has now turned into thing white discharge. I’m not for sure what’s going on with me. Any suggestions? How long should I wait to get tested for Herpes? Is there a window period like HIV? Do other STD’s have a window period as well?

[Teak]

Return to your orginal thread. Your question was answered. You never had an exposure from oral sex.

[simone7777]

That wasn't my thread, I was asking a question on someone else thread that dealt with oral and HIV.  Which is not my question, I included that because that was a risk for other STDS not HIV. But the oral is not my main concern.

[Teak]

You can obtain your conclusive negative test  for HIVresult 3 months post exposure for unprotected penetrative vaginal or anal sex. All your other STD questions need to be asked in the STD forum.

[simone7777]

Well let me rephrase my question would any of the above symptoms indicators of HIV infection?

[Teak]

Symptoms or lack of will never tell you your status. HIV has no specific symptoms.

[Krish799]

Even your 4 week post last exposure test are highly assuring onwards so don't worry about your symptoms I already waisted eight months of my life dear just take final test at three months post exposure ... DON'T WORRY I M VERY SURE U WILL BE NEG AND FORGET ABOUT YOUR SYMPTOMS AND HIV KEEP YOUR MIND AT PEACE.. We are in 2012 tests are excellent these days...