Please help. Cunnilingus HIV..

[Mattyodawg]

Okay first and foremost im apologizing in advance for asking this quesiton because ive seen mannnyyy posts with similiar situations as mine but i jsut need some reassurance. So on October 17th of 2008 i met a girl and within 4 hours we were hooking up and she gave me oral sex and i gave her oral sex. By the way, im 16 years old and so is she. It was freezing outside and i was shivering ( possibly cracked lips or dry/torn cuticles?) the next  day people were telling me she was HIV positive and i totally FREAKED. i went to the school counseling center many times and the anxiety soon took over my life. everybody who ive talked to said the chances are very low but i feel that im gonna be that guy to get it despite the statistics. i've convinced myself that im going to die in 10 years and my life is over, no help from my friends because they think i have it. im also totally nerve racked about going to get tested because in reality, i dont want to know. i love my family more than anything and i rally dont want to tell them that i have HIV  =[. I DO NOT GO A DAY WITHOUT THINKING IM GOING TO DIE.. PLEASE HELP!  

                                                                                               thanks in advance

[Mattyodawg]

thankss man it means so much to me.

[aardvarkadmirer]

Chill out mate, before you break your Shift key.

First off, you're basing all of your stress on hearsay. This is unreliable at best. Second, Neither receiving oral nor giving cunnilingus is a risk for HIV. It just doesn't happen.

Take a deep breath.
You're gonna be fine.