Please help! I'm confused

Hello. My story is very different.  I had unprotected sex for about 10 sec in Oct of 2008. I only inserted the (head of my penis only) into the vagina and the rest of intercourse was done with condom. (did not really have intercourse) Could not get an erection; therefore, condom was never inserted in vagina, only 10 sec. of penis head only. I have no open sores on the head of my penis.

About three days later, I felt pain in groin.  Went to hospital and Dr. said I had ureathitis. I am a married man and fell in my marriage. About two weeks later we notice wife had a rash on both thighs and both shoulders. Took her to doctor and they gave her a cream and the cream cleared it up.  Wife has no pain in groin and the family doctor ask her also did she feel pain in groin. Wife said no.

I went to follow up with a urologist because of my pain in groin. He told me I had prostatist and put me on levaquin 500mg. for a month and two weeks.  I still been having pain in groin now and the last time I went to the urouligist he said me and wife had inflammation. Just take ibprofen 500 mg for inflammation. He said, that vaginities is just inflammation also.

I saw wife vagina had white/grayish stuff on it. It's not milky but kinda like a paste.  Wife went to see a gynocologist and his assistant took sample of white/grayish stuff on a microscope and said it's not yeast. Later on the main doctor said it was yeast. He later then look inside wife's vagina and wife had no white/grayish stuff on her vagina walls. He open wife's vagina up and let me look inside also. I saw no white/grayish stuff on vaginal walls.  Wife took another test and her ph was 7.  Wife then went to a urologist and we both showed him white/grayish stuff on wife's vagina, he said it was debris and to keep area clean. We see white/grayish stuff coming if my wife doesn’t shower for two days. Wife does not shower for 2 days only for this medical experience. We shower daily of course.

At the hospital me and wife tested negative for Chlamydia, gonorrhea, syphilis.  Only thing hospital told us, that wife hade Vaginitis and I had Urethrits. And we took std pills/cocktail. We did not have an hiv/aids test done.  Now we are one year into this experience and we both have joint pain.  I have popping sounds in my knee, shoulder, wrist, fingers and morning stiffness in my heels. I also have just pain in my left knee and wrist and bone pain when I feel cold. Wife has pain in her left knee and right elbow that comes and goes with or without it being cold. She never took any medication.

The woman who I cheated with has a bad left knee too. And takes iburfroen. She told me that she dont have any STD, but I think she is lying.  She now has moved away. I saw a prescription for Ibfrofen in her bathroom medicine cabinet and I was taking it with my levaquin, but I never did because I had blood pressure medication that is on the warning pamphlet and it said do not take.

I am confused if this is related to the levaquin or ARS. And now my wife says she has pain in her knee and elbow joint about 1 year later. Her back, had problems a couple months ago also. My body feels that it has gotten arthritis because I feel better with heat but I don't know if it is from side effects of medicine or ARS. My wife never took any medication for her Vaginitis. We both might have something serious because we are having the same symptoms along with the person who I cheated with.  That's three people with joint pain.  Or maybe the levaquin was in my body fluids and when me and wife have sex the levaquin got in my semen could be affecting her body also.  Me and my wife have no fever or flu like symptoms. Need medical advice. Thank You

[Vance2335]

Symptoms are not related to HIV at all.
Now that 10 seconds would be very very low risk, but if you have a question in your mind about it then test for HIV.

[korikom]

What do you think it is doctor?

[Vance2335]

No Dr's in this section and this is an HIV community. Can speculate what it is but like I said symptoms are not HIV related, follow up with your Dr.

[somedusa]

very very low risk i thought most responders in this forum say it is high risk and requires immediate testing

[Teak]

Do not pull up and post to old threads.