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Please help me!!! Hiv??
Hello and thank you for your time in reading my story and assesing my risk.
I am a 24 male, not gay and non drug user that lives in the U.S. On October 11th I had unprotected sex with a 24 year old black female I knew her for about 3 months and we did it before protected, I did it less than 2 minutes and from the back with her bent over and unprotected vaginal sex I came on her back. She then said oh no why did you do that I thought you had a condom on. After on the ride home the next day (she slept over) I asked her to take plan B since we did it unprotected vaginal and I also asked her if she had anythihing she said no, she laughfed a lilttle then said do you....I said no I dont, trust me you are the only person I did it bare with........I droped her off.....
Now on November 2nd I met this girl and the only thing we did was smoke a blunt. She was 30 yr white female and she was gay (messed with girls and guys) and did heroine before and also been to jail for 2 years she also had all these mark all over her legs. I did have a cut on the side of my mouth. I get this sometimes. When you open your mouth wide its like the side of my mouth tour. It was open but not bleeding. The only thing I did as I said before was smoke a whole blunt with her. I made sure and put the blunt on the other side of my mouth. That was it.
On November 4th I met a girl that was 21 years old and black. I still had that open cut on the side of my mouth and it did somewhat look open but not bleeding. we kissed, Not deep kissing but I did kiss her alot with toung. She gave me unprotected oral and then had protected sex, I then took off the condom after I came. She then gave me more unprotected oral for 10 min or so I then put on another condom and had sex with her again and we also kissed after I came I went into the bathroom took off the condom wiped my penis off with toulet paper and washed my hands. Both times we kissed for under 5 min and she gave me oral maybe the first time for 5 min and the second time 10-15 min. After that I noticed like bumps on her belly raised and asked her what it was she said her sister threw hot oil on her. She got a text from one of her guy friends and she said she met someone and hangin out with them, he replyed and said wear a condom and said some other stuff like call him later and some more small talk. after that I left.
On November 8th and November 10th I had unprotected sex with my girlfriend. We just got back toghether. The first time I stuck my thing in her vaginal unprotected just 1 time, let it sit for a sec then pulled out. The second time I put only the head unprotected in her vagina a couple times maybe 3. I know she is clean and she has not done anything since we broke up and I know for sure she is not a risk.
On November 17th or so. I felt like I was getting sick with the cold/flu. I took niquill and fell asleep. The next day I woke up I felt fine. Later that night I felt extream neseuos, I went to sleep and when I woke up I felt fine then later again I felt extream neseous. I did not throw up 1 time. The whole ordeal lasted 3 days. I did have a canker sore for about a week during this whole thing.
After I felt better arount November 20th or so my girlfriend felt bad. She said she didint have a fever but im sure it was a light one. She said only one side of her neck had swollon lymph nyodes and she had a sore throat both she said felt real bad and a bad head ache she said this all laster 3-4 days at most.
this whole time from like late october till November I had an anal abcess and it popped. If you dont know what a anal abcess is you can google it. Its a puss filled bump by the anas that needs to be drained and almost always 50% of the time turns into an anal fisher.
I did smoke majauana everyday till November 6th.
I went to the doctor on November 27th because of my anal abcess but I did get all these test.
hiv- negative
clamidya-negative
gonnareah-negative
hepititas-negative
syphillis-negative
I also got complete blood count and the doctor said it was slightly elevated nothing alaming (dont worry)
This was 47 days after my first exposur (6 1/2 weeks almost 7) for the negative hiv test
This was 23 days after my 2nd and 3rd exposure (3 1/2 weeks) for the negative hiv test
I did get a rash on my left top hand 2 times light non ichy. It went away in 1 day and the same as the second time. I got the first rash on December 23 or so. (or so means give or take a few days before or after but around that time). I got the second rash early january 2010. (it looked like little dots all over my left top of hand - non itchy then went away less then 24 hours after I washed it with soap and put lotion a couple times)
I am waiting to take the 3 month conclusive hiv test. just to ease my mind. I have been under stress because of this not crazy stress.
Last night January 10-11 2010 I slept without a shirt I havent since November 8th and I got a raised itchy rash it went away over night but still has a couple pimple like dots. not red anymore or itchy. maybe 3 dots or so.
I do have slightly swollon lymph noydes in my groin area. by penis on sides as of now.
My pee was very cloudy for a few weeks and I did have surgery on Dec 11 for my anal fisher. minor surgery.
That is my whole story and I would like to kown what kind of risk or what you think.
Thank you soooooo much.
This will definitly help me alot.
Thank you again. You can call me Guy
I am a 24 male, not gay and non drug user that lives in the U.S. On October 11th I had unprotected sex with a 24 year old black female I knew her for about 3 months and we did it before protected, I did it less than 2 minutes and from the back with her bent over and unprotected vaginal sex I came on her back. She then said oh no why did you do that I thought you had a condom on. After on the ride home the next day (she slept over) I asked her to take plan B since we did it unprotected vaginal and I also asked her if she had anythihing she said no, she laughfed a lilttle then said do you....I said no I dont, trust me you are the only person I did it bare with........I droped her off.....
Now on November 2nd I met this girl and the only thing we did was smoke a blunt. She was 30 yr white female and she was gay (messed with girls and guys) and did heroine before and also been to jail for 2 years she also had all these mark all over her legs. I did have a cut on the side of my mouth. I get this sometimes. When you open your mouth wide its like the side of my mouth tour. It was open but not bleeding. The only thing I did as I said before was smoke a whole blunt with her. I made sure and put the blunt on the other side of my mouth. That was it.
On November 4th I met a girl that was 21 years old and black. I still had that open cut on the side of my mouth and it did somewhat look open but not bleeding. we kissed, Not deep kissing but I did kiss her alot with toung. She gave me unprotected oral and then had protected sex, I then took off the condom after I came. She then gave me more unprotected oral for 10 min or so I then put on another condom and had sex with her again and we also kissed after I came I went into the bathroom took off the condom wiped my penis off with toulet paper and washed my hands. Both times we kissed for under 5 min and she gave me oral maybe the first time for 5 min and the second time 10-15 min. After that I noticed like bumps on her belly raised and asked her what it was she said her sister threw hot oil on her. She got a text from one of her guy friends and she said she met someone and hangin out with them, he replyed and said wear a condom and said some other stuff like call him later and some more small talk. after that I left.
On November 8th and November 10th I had unprotected sex with my girlfriend. We just got back toghether. The first time I stuck my thing in her vaginal unprotected just 1 time, let it sit for a sec then pulled out. The second time I put only the head unprotected in her vagina a couple times maybe 3. I know she is clean and she has not done anything since we broke up and I know for sure she is not a risk.
On November 17th or so. I felt like I was getting sick with the cold/flu. I took niquill and fell asleep. The next day I woke up I felt fine. Later that night I felt extream neseuos, I went to sleep and when I woke up I felt fine then later again I felt extream neseous. I did not throw up 1 time. The whole ordeal lasted 3 days. I did have a canker sore for about a week during this whole thing.
After I felt better arount November 20th or so my girlfriend felt bad. She said she didint have a fever but im sure it was a light one. She said only one side of her neck had swollon lymph nyodes and she had a sore throat both she said felt real bad and a bad head ache she said this all laster 3-4 days at most.
this whole time from like late october till November I had an anal abcess and it popped. If you dont know what a anal abcess is you can google it. Its a puss filled bump by the anas that needs to be drained and almost always 50% of the time turns into an anal fisher.
I did smoke majauana everyday till November 6th.
I went to the doctor on November 27th because of my anal abcess but I did get all these test.
hiv- negative
clamidya-negative
gonnareah-negative
hepititas-negative
syphillis-negative
I also got complete blood count and the doctor said it was slightly elevated nothing alaming (dont worry)
This was 47 days after my first exposur (6 1/2 weeks almost 7) for the negative hiv test
This was 23 days after my 2nd and 3rd exposure (3 1/2 weeks) for the negative hiv test
I did get a rash on my left top hand 2 times light non ichy. It went away in 1 day and the same as the second time. I got the first rash on December 23 or so. (or so means give or take a few days before or after but around that time). I got the second rash early january 2010. (it looked like little dots all over my left top of hand - non itchy then went away less then 24 hours after I washed it with soap and put lotion a couple times)
I am waiting to take the 3 month conclusive hiv test. just to ease my mind. I have been under stress because of this not crazy stress.
Last night January 10-11 2010 I slept without a shirt I havent since November 8th and I got a raised itchy rash it went away over night but still has a couple pimple like dots. not red anymore or itchy. maybe 3 dots or so.
I do have slightly swollon lymph noydes in my groin area. by penis on sides as of now.
My pee was very cloudy for a few weeks and I did have surgery on Dec 11 for my anal fisher. minor surgery.
That is my whole story and I would like to kown what kind of risk or what you think.
Thank you soooooo much.
This will definitly help me alot.
Thank you again. You can call me Guy
1. Symptoms or the lack there of will not tell you your status.
2. Any negative is good but it is not conclusive.
3. NO
4. NO
2. Any negative is good but it is not conclusive.
3. NO
4. NO
Hi teak and thank you for answering.
I just want to clarify some questions I have if you can please answer...
1. Are my symtoms or girlfriends symtoms consostant with HIV?
2. Is a 47 day negative HIV test an indication I did not get HIV from my unprotected vaginal exposure?
3. Is oral sex and kissing with an open cut a risk ??
4. Is smoking a joint with some one HIV+ a risk ??
What do you think in detail. I am new here. First post an I know you get tons of questions a day but please help
I just want to clarify some questions I have if you can please answer...
1. Are my symtoms or girlfriends symtoms consostant with HIV?
2. Is a 47 day negative HIV test an indication I did not get HIV from my unprotected vaginal exposure?
3. Is oral sex and kissing with an open cut a risk ??
4. Is smoking a joint with some one HIV+ a risk ??
What do you think in detail. I am new here. First post an I know you get tons of questions a day but please help
Please help me and ***** my risk. Please I cant think straight and I cant function, I am so stressed out. Please someone help me.
I hope this helps copy from doctor quote in forum
by HHH,MD , Aug 17, 2005 12:00AM
I did a little searching and also got in touch with some colleagues doing research on speed of seroconversion, i.e. development of postive HIV antibody test in people with ARS. The test doesn't become positive as soon as I thought. Few have positive tests before 10 days; at 11-14 days it's about 40%, but by 17 days it's almost 100%. In other words, slow trend through 2 weeks, then almost everybody gets a positive test over the next 3 days.
HHH, MD
by HHH,MD , Aug 17, 2005 12:00AM
I did a little searching and also got in touch with some colleagues doing research on speed of seroconversion, i.e. development of postive HIV antibody test in people with ARS. The test doesn't become positive as soon as I thought. Few have positive tests before 10 days; at 11-14 days it's about 40%, but by 17 days it's almost 100%. In other words, slow trend through 2 weeks, then almost everybody gets a positive test over the next 3 days.
HHH, MD
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