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Hi Everyone, I have developed an irriated penis tip very sensitive and my inner legs feel a bit chaffed. looks like herpes sympt. The Dr. said that for all practical purposes I cannot get herpes from the scenerio below but this is obviously not normal and not stress induced. Is it possible to get herpes from rubbing the vaginal area no insertion and then touching the penis about 30 seconds later for about 10 or 20 seconds presuming she had an unseen outbreak. The CDC says that touching alone can spread herpes but the Dr. after reading my post says no risk. I simply dont believe the whole "not realistic risk" as my penis tip is sensitive. No sores or red dots, after 23 days but worried. The Dr. even says no real risk for unprotective vaginal sex as I have been reading the post... Thoughts.... Please Please...... JoeC, Dobber, Mike_no....

1. Massaged clitoris, top of vagina with right hand fingers, no insertion but worried about vaginal fluid traces or possibly blood traces which may have previously occured from her grinding on me with me with my clothes on and hers were off and then me directly touching my penis 30 seconds later with these hands which may have had fluid or blood traces on it. After massaging the clitoris with my left hand for say 30 seconds to a minute, I then put my finger inside her. Vaginal fluid felt on this finger and then lets say 30 seconds later I touched/rubbed my penis for about 30 seconds with my left hand which I previously massaged her clitoris with (worried about vaginal fluid and possible blood traces on these fingers) I breifly touched my penis with my right hand that previously had vaginal fluid from fingering. Since it was a lap dance with heavy grinding (my clothes on) her vagina could have been irriated and could have had blood traces or vaginal fluid. What are the chances that fluid possible blood traces on my fingers could have entered through my penis when I touched it due to possible abrasions or redening during lap dance when I touched it. No cuts on penis but may have been tender.
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it is possibleto get herpes the way u describe if only the girl had an outbreak and ur penis came in contact with her vagina. the only way for sure is to go get tested for herpes, irritated penis does not sound like herpes at all. The first symptoms of herpes will cause visible sores or blisters. hope this help
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Nicky,

You need to ease up, listen to me, you were never at a risk, you can't get some thing that you weren't exposed to

Your symptoms, discomfort, issues etc are all due to anxiety, stop reading about HIV, it's not the problem with you, YOU CAN'T GET HIV THROUGH THE KIND OF INCIDENCE YOU HAVE MENTIONED ABOVE !

See a shrink, it'll help you to relieve you of your irrational fears

Mike
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