Pls help me!

Dear Doctors,

I'm a male, 28 years oId. I have two risks:

First, I had unprotected oral sex with a unkown HIV+ person in 5 times just three weeks. I felt that I got microscopic bruises/cuts when I had oral sex with her.

Second, I had unprotected sex with my girl friend I don't know her HIV status. We had unprotected sex about 4 or 5 times (two months ago). Now, We dont meet each other.

I'm so worry! I have never felt muscle pain, and alot symptoms.

Could you tell me how many percent I have H+ ?

Thanks you very much!

[Teak]

Zero. You never had a risk.

[Vance2335]

Have your gf test for HIV if you are worried about her

[needhelp3465]

@Teak:Could you tell me more detail why? Thanks!

[needhelp3465]

Could you tell me how many percent I have H+ ?

[needhelp3465]

pls help me! I'm so worry!

[Vance2335]

Oral sex is not a risk.

[needhelp3465]

But the second case, I had unprotected sex with my girl friend I don't know her HIV status.

[LIZZIE LOU]

you can test now for a good indication of your status.  follow up at 3 months for a conclusive result.

[Yohji]

Why did you say that there is no risk in spite of the fact that he was unprotected vaginal sex?

[Teak]

After dealing with non risk issues over and over like yours it was an oversite. My mistake was corrected.

[Yohji]

Thank's :)

[needhelp3465]

Dear All,

I want to ask for more detail. While I had unprotected sex with my girlfriend, I had a suck at her vagina. Is this a risk of HIV infection or not? I mean my tongue touched deeply her vagina.

Looking forward to your responses.

Thesun

[needhelp3465]

I am going to get tested. I will have the conclusion next week!

[mike_no]

Did you have unprotected penetrative vaginal or anal sex?

If the unprotected oral is what you are referring to, let me keep you informed you had no risk in this scenario.

[needhelp3465]

Thank you for your response, I had unprotected penetrative vaginal.

[mike_no]

The best way to find out is to take your girl friend and test her, that will put your mind at ease. However, if you are not really sure about her recent sexual history, you would need to get tested yourself.

I would recommend you testing at the 6th week and back it up with a final one at the 12th week. A 6week negative changing ahead is very unlikely.

Good Luck.

[needhelp3465]

Thank mike_no,
Sorry for this question. "I had a suck at her vagina. Is this a risk of HIV infection or not? I mean my tongue touched deeply her vagina" equals Unprotected Oral Sex. And as you mean, I had no risk in this scenario?

Thank again.

[ahad111]

what is the window period 3 months or 6 months ?
i had 2 cmia tests for detection of ag/ab to hiv 1/2 tested at 7 months post exposure both negative.then again at 8 months post exposure i tested twice using immunochromatography both negative.Are these tests conclusive and fully reliable ?
I also had a pcr(proviral dna test) test done awaiting reults at the moment in another 8 days.Is it possible that the viral load is so low that no antibodies are produced that can be detected ?

[LIZZIE LOU]

you were answered in the other post that you highjacked.

please start your own posts for any further questions.

[LIZZIE LOU]

go back and re-read the replies you were given.  you were told TWO TIMES that oral sex is NOT a risk for contracting hiv.

[needhelp3465]

I'm sorry. I come from Asia country, and my English is not good.

Now I understand: Unprotected vaginal oral sex is not a risk for contracting HIV. Is it true?

Thank you!

[LIZZIE LOU]

unprotected oral sex does NOT transmit hiv.

here are a few quotes from our hiv experts at medhelp:

There is no debate (among experts) about the HIV risks associated with oral sex.  The risk is so low that almost nobody who cares for HIV infected patients has ever had a patient believed to have been infected that way.  Among experts, it's a semantic issue about using terms like "no risk" and "very low risk".  There is no difference between my or Dr. Hook's use of "low risk" and other experts' "no risk".
DR. HANSFIELD

"And oral sex is basically safe sex -- completely safe with respect to HIV and although not zero risk for other STDs, the chance of infection is far lower than for unprotected vaginal or anal sex.  Please educate yourself about the real risks.  If you stick with oral sex and condom-protected vaginal or anal sex, you have no HIV worries and very little worry about other STDs. "   DR HANSFIELD

"I am sure you can find lots of people who belive that HIV is transmitted by oral sex, but you will not find scientific data to support this unrealistic concern..."   DR HOOK

"HIV is not spread by touching, masturbation, oral sex or condom protected sex."- DR. HOOK

in the public HIV Prevention forum of MedHelp, TEAK and the other moderators maintain that oral sex in all forms is a zero risk activity. Would you agree with this assessment?  
I TOTALLY AGREE / DR GARCIA

[needhelp3465]

Thank you very much! You are very kind. Your respone helps me feel better!

[needhelp3465]

Unprotected VAGINAL oral sex = Oral Sex = No Risk!

Thank you!

[needhelp3465]

Dear All,

I'm sorry because I can not stop me to ask this question. Is it true that Oral sex is no risk even when I swallowed the fluid of her vagina? I think vaginal fluids contain a lots of HIV.

Thank you!

[LIZZIE LOU]

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[needhelp3465]

On 28th August, 2010, I had vagina sex with a female (sex worker). I used condom and I am sure it was not broken or leaked. But after removing condom, which may have some vaginal fluid, immediately I touched my penis head and tip and kept hand there for about 2 mins. Then I showered with soap.

Now I am under so much stress, I  think  that I am under risk.

I am  really scared, please help me !

Pls dont ban me! Let me see your comments!

[Vance2335]

So you will not need to post again...HIV is transmitted sexually by: Unprotected anal and/or vaginal sex. That is it. You did not have a risk. No need to follow up questions because you did not have a risk.

I suggest you stop having sex until you can control your fears.

[needhelp3465]

Thank Vance2335  very much! I will not have sex with any ones. I will be married in two month, and I don't know how to tell my girl friend about my problem.

Do you think about HIV can live outer environment during hours so that it can transmitte to my penis throw small cuts and a hole? Am I true?

Pl give me som words! Thank you very much!

[LIZZIE LOU]

* Anyone who continues to post excessively, questioning a conclusively negative result or no-risk situation, will be subject to action by MedHelp. Conclusively negative results or a no-risk situation will be based upon the criteria established by MedHelp’s doctors. Action will be taken as follows:
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    * Continuing to post regarding the negative result / no risk situation will result in a 3 day suspension
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[needhelp3465]

Thank you very much for notice! I don't intend to break your rule,  this is my new trouble, touched penis after removing condom.

I appreciate your website, please don't ban me! Let me see your website!

[needhelp3465]

Dear LIZZIE LOU,  Could you glance at my new trouble, touched penis after removing condom? I am so worried.

I'm sorry because my English is not good enough express my problem more clearly.  I would like to express my gratitude at your help with my accident. I just only know to say thank you in deep my heart.

[LIZZIE LOU]

touching your penis after removing condom is not a risk for contracting hiv.

move on ! ! !