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Possible HIV Infection? Help me!!

Hi i'm from singapore and i visited a freelance PRC CSW 1 month plus ago. I only intended to have a erotic massage that's all.
While having the naked massage we had very close contact, where i was lying on my back and she's lying on me giving me a boobs massage.

And I'm un-circumsized and i was erected at that time and I'm worried there is a chance where her vagina fluid may have contact my penis and foreskin and there were quite AGGRESSIVE(feel abit pain due to friction) rubbing of my penis between her pubic hair area and my body may have touch her vagina can't be sure of that. But assume there is, now i am worried it may rub the vaginal fluid into my foreskin and causing a HIV infection. As i heard un-circumsized foreskin is another route for infection.

After the massage she actually offered sex and i declined thus she offered a handjob instead and i'm aware that there's no risk for handjob therefore i agree to it. So she actually put some oil on me and finish off with a handjob.

After this incident i went to DSC(sexual health clinic) at Singapore here and was diagnose with NSU (non-specific urethritis) due to a negative result for gonorrhea and chlamydia. And also was tested for HIV-1 and 2 at 1 month point and result was negative. And the health professional or nurse say it's accuracy is 95% at this point. Now awaiting for the 2nd month point to go for another HIV blood test. And also at 3rd month for HIV and syphilis as they said its conclusive.

Questions
1: Is it possible that her vaginal secretion was AGGRESSIVELY rubbed into my un-circumsized foreskin or force into the urethra and cause infection?

2: Does HIV early symptoms cause NSU (Non-specific urethritis)?

3: Can i believe the health professional or nurse that 1 month test is 95%?

4: How accurate is the 2nd month point test for HIV?

Thanks in advance for answering, due to this exposure can't sleep nor eat. Please help me.
Thank you very much.
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HIV is transmitted by unprotected anal and or vaginal sex within the body, not by masturbation, not by fluids running down your leg etc. .

YOU NEVER HAD A RISK OF CONTRACTING HIV!
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Teak as I look through the forum I saw your post saying HIV can enter through te foreskin of a un-circumcised man. Link below.

http://www.medhelp.org/posts/HIV-Prevention/How-does-HIV-enter-your-system-via-penis/show/968905

That will mean my exposure where the lady rubbed on my penis has vagina fluid rubbed on my foreskin without exposure to the air can cause infection through my un-circumsized foreskin. Because the rubbing was very very close contact. And this might already cause an infection through my foreskin? (let's say the fluid contact my foreskin first instead of air)

Sorry for another question but i really really worried.:(
Test at 1 month is not conclusive going for 2nd and 3rd to be conclusive.:(

Thank you for spending time reading and replying to my question.
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HIV is transmitted by unprotected anal and or vaginal sex within the body, not by masturbation, not by fluids running down your leg etc.
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Sorry but I did another research that the foreskin consist of Langerhans cell that will allow HIV to be transmitted if it's rubbed into the foreskin.

Is it true? Can someone explain to me???? This information got me worst.
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HIV is unable to reproduce outside its living host (unlike many bacteria or fungi, which may do so under suitable conditions), except under laboratory conditions; therefore, it does not spread or maintain infectiousness outside its host.
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sorry for my bad english =(
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Hi Teak, just want to Thankyou for a fast reply.

Just a question, to be specifically HIV virus dies in millisecond outside the host or second or minutes?
Because i believe if there is fluid with virus on and it continuously rubbed on my un-circumsized foreskin and glans. There is no pauses in the process of the massage and therefore i'm curious if the virus does not inactive in millisecond i might have contracted it. And the fluid might not dry up that fast during the rubbing.

And can the massage oil obstruct the virus or it does no effect on the virus?

Sorry if i ask these few questions.
I just need someone to open my mind and really a scientific fact that virus dies outside the host right away in terms or millisecond even if the fluid is not dried up. Because i really cant find any prove to support that theory. I'm really worried sick myself. =(

Thank again and in advance Teak.
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HIV is unable to reproduce outside its living host (unlike many bacteria or fungi, which may do so under suitable conditions), except under laboratory conditions; therefore, it does not spread or maintain infectiousness outside its host.
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