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Probably irrational, but can someone clarify?

Hello all,

Had a risky exposure back a year ago. Had a HIV test one day short of 12 weeks after the event and it came back negative.

After this point I started a new relationship and have been with the girl ever since. THis week however she has been ill with a headache (2days), really bad diarrhea, which persisted for 3 days until halting under immodium, only to come back today. She has had moments when she is either very cold or hot but the overriding symptom is diarrhea.

I am just getting a bit worried what these symptoms are? I love this girl dearly. How sure can I be that I have not passed HIV on? Please help.
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You do realize she could just be sick.... that does happen from time to time...
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you CANNOT transmit something that you DONT have, now can you???  you have a conclusively negative test result PROVING that you do NOT have hiv.
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Sorry mate, Can i stop worrying I transmitted the virus?
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The only girl I have been with since the risky exposure is this one, and I am hoping it will only ever be this girl now, hence the anxiety. I had no sex at all until the neg test, and started the relationship about a month later. Does this mean I can stop worrying I have given her anything?

Sorry Teak!
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Only if you haven't had any other unprotected vaginal or anal sex since your neg result.
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OK, thanks Teak. As i mentioned in the topic title I know it may sound just completely irrational, but I love this girl immensely and just want to love and protect her.

By virtue of confidence of the 12 week (-1day) neg test, can i therefore by safe in the knowledge i haven't passed on the disease to her?

P.S. I can only apoligise for my persistance
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Yes.
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I understand that, and she is going to the doctors today.

Can i be confident in my negative test one day short of 12 weeks?
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I'm telling you no one can diagnose her over the Internet.
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So Teak are you saying this could be the case?

I have booked her into the doctors today.
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Tell her to go to a doctor.
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