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Protected Sex Amsterdam - Anxiety Symptoms ?
Hello Experts,
I have already posted this on the STD and was told that i was at no risk . Just wanted to view opinion of the experts in this forum.
I am a virgin till before this encounter . I regret doing this. I visited one of the famous massage parlors in Amsterdam 11 weeks back . She gave me a body to body massage for about 10 mins when i had the towel on. Then she removed the towel took my penis in her hand to make it hard . I started to precum but the moment she saw that , she took a condom and put it on me and gave me a protected oral for 2 mins . Then with the same condom had sex for only 2 mins . I did not penetrate deep nor hard. I also saw she using some lube before we started. I cum in the condom itself after that i checked the condom it was intact . Then removed the condom carefully with left hand and wiped the cum with right hand with tissue. Other Information Also that parlor was clean .She seemed healthy. she took bath before and after sex. Even me too.
I was not having any anxiety for 1 week . Suddenly my mind started oscillating if i will get something from this encounter . I did not have any symptoms till i had fever once
19th day - Mild Fever - Cleared of next day.
After that I had some anxiety attacks resulting in some hot flushes sometimes.Then i started to read some of the posts in the forum and understood that this was safe. So i did not worry much after that. But at the end of 8th week
8th week - Got some viral infection in my left side mouth
Day 1 - Swelling of lower jaw and gums (may be in salivary glands not sure if it is lymp node) , pain swallowing (Went to doctor ,He gave some tablets paracetamol and ibumetin for inflammation., he said it will clear in a week )
Day 2 - Swelling got reduced and pain too.
Day 3,4,5 - Had mild fever with some body aches
Day 6 - I was feeling ok without tablets
Day 7 - I was fine .
Again anxiety started to play again with my mind.
At the start of 10th week i am felt some sort of swelling below my tongue again but no pain with little temperature for a day or two. i am worried since then.
I never had a sore throat , rash or no genital problems , no diarrhea(except for couple of loose stools) . My only worry was that mild swelling below my tongue.
The above mentioned fever was never above 101.
At 11th week end now i feel fine now except for some anxiety.
1.) Did i have any risk with the above encounter for any STD's especially HIV?
2.)Do the above symptoms match with HIV Symptoms or any STD's?
3.) Do i require any medical testing for the above encounter?
4.) Is it something to do with ARS or is it just a flu?
I m not going to do this mistake again in my life.
Thanks.
I have already posted this on the STD and was told that i was at no risk . Just wanted to view opinion of the experts in this forum.
I am a virgin till before this encounter . I regret doing this. I visited one of the famous massage parlors in Amsterdam 11 weeks back . She gave me a body to body massage for about 10 mins when i had the towel on. Then she removed the towel took my penis in her hand to make it hard . I started to precum but the moment she saw that , she took a condom and put it on me and gave me a protected oral for 2 mins . Then with the same condom had sex for only 2 mins . I did not penetrate deep nor hard. I also saw she using some lube before we started. I cum in the condom itself after that i checked the condom it was intact . Then removed the condom carefully with left hand and wiped the cum with right hand with tissue. Other Information Also that parlor was clean .She seemed healthy. she took bath before and after sex. Even me too.
I was not having any anxiety for 1 week . Suddenly my mind started oscillating if i will get something from this encounter . I did not have any symptoms till i had fever once
19th day - Mild Fever - Cleared of next day.
After that I had some anxiety attacks resulting in some hot flushes sometimes.Then i started to read some of the posts in the forum and understood that this was safe. So i did not worry much after that. But at the end of 8th week
8th week - Got some viral infection in my left side mouth
Day 1 - Swelling of lower jaw and gums (may be in salivary glands not sure if it is lymp node) , pain swallowing (Went to doctor ,He gave some tablets paracetamol and ibumetin for inflammation., he said it will clear in a week )
Day 2 - Swelling got reduced and pain too.
Day 3,4,5 - Had mild fever with some body aches
Day 6 - I was feeling ok without tablets
Day 7 - I was fine .
Again anxiety started to play again with my mind.
At the start of 10th week i am felt some sort of swelling below my tongue again but no pain with little temperature for a day or two. i am worried since then.
I never had a sore throat , rash or no genital problems , no diarrhea(except for couple of loose stools) . My only worry was that mild swelling below my tongue.
The above mentioned fever was never above 101.
At 11th week end now i feel fine now except for some anxiety.
1.) Did i have any risk with the above encounter for any STD's especially HIV?
2.)Do the above symptoms match with HIV Symptoms or any STD's?
3.) Do i require any medical testing for the above encounter?
4.) Is it something to do with ARS or is it just a flu?
I m not going to do this mistake again in my life.
Thanks.
Vance can u pls answer this last question
Does ejaculation increase the HIV risk with still the condom in tact ? But not deep penetration
Does ejaculation increase the HIV risk with still the condom in tact ? But not deep penetration
Do my symptoms suggest any other STD's ? If I have to test which ones? Can u pls tell me those. I had protected BJ , no kiss , no lick , dint touch her genitals.
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