Protected Sex with HIV Positive

[manc1986]

I have recently gone through quite an awful break-up, and one of my friends has been a really good shoulder to cry on with it. During this, we became quite close, and one thing lead to another and we ended up having protected sex. This involved protected anal sex (were both men) in which I was the 'giver' and my friend the 'receiver'. He performed unprotected oral sex on me, I however didnt on him as he remained flaccid for the encounter.

After this, I was unaware of his status, he informed me he was HIV positive. I ensured him I was no worried, as not to upset him, but I anxiety has made me worried as to the levels of exposure he made of put me under. Please can I have advice as to what risk I have been under during this encounter.

As mentioned we used a condom (i checked afterwards for any slips/rips of which there were none) and I nor him ejaculated. There was though unprotected oral sex from him to me. I am aware of the saliva/kissing issue, in that it isnt, but I have concerns of all other activites we had. I have been tested three days ago (three days after the sexual act). And I am yet to hear anything back from them.

Please help, its quite mind consuming, and panicking me a lot at the moment.

[Teak]

You don't have any other concerns.

[manc1986]

And my other concerns, are they just me being overly anxious over all of this? I'm quite concerned...

[Teak]

You never had an exposure you had protected anal sex.