Question on Sensual Massage and AIDS denial

[slcguy127]

Hi everyone,

I wanted to run something by all of you.  There is a massage therapist I'd been going to for years.  He gives a great massage, but also provides some "extras."  Those are nothing more than him being naked, lying on top of me and sliding up and down my body as he massages me, then giving a happy ending.  He gets hard during the encounter, but never ejaculates, doesn't seem to produce much if any precut, and there is never any penetration of any kind between the two of us.  The only sexual contact is his naked body rubbing against mine, his hand on my penis, and my hand on his penis.  

Well about a year ago after massaging me, he started talking to me about how HIV/AIDS is a hoax, HIV doesn't cause AIDS, etc., etc.  I was shocked given how health conscious he is.  I stopped going to him after that, but really like him and want to go back.  Obviously it's a leap on my part, but I assume that his AIDS denialism means that he doesn't normally practice safe sex and may very well be POZ at this point.  Am I being silly over worrying that if he is POZ, the encounters I mentioned may be a route of transmission?  My instinct and what I've read tell me I am being silly, but I just wanted to double check with all of you.  

Thanks for any and all replies.

[slcguy127]

Great.  Thank you.  That's what I thought as well, but wanted to double check.  And I agree with your advice, but do not plan to have anal sex with him.  I don't ever look for that in a massage, but simply won't with someone who believes that AIDS is a myth.

[joggen]

No, since you did not have unprotected penetrative anal sex, you could not have been at risk. Regardless of his crackpot views you should use condoms if you decide to have anal sex with him.