extreme Lympnode in neck..finding it diffcult to even swallow water..very worried. please hep no penetration. rubbed by croch front and back with clothes on(both me and her). held her breast with her top on. what should i do? can i leave this behind? not to worry at all? getting married next month
REREAD THE ANSWERS ALREADY GIVEN TO YOU!! You did not have a risk. Your symptoms have nothing to do with HIV, See your doctor if your symptoms are an issue
Calm down, your anxiety is causing you to misread replies. You are not reading NickOne7's post as it should be read.
He is telling you that the activities you have described did not put you at risk of hiv - zero chance of hiv. Hiv is not going to jump through her clothes and your clothes. Further, your skin is an efficient barrier against hiv, your fingering incident is safe.
If your symptoms (the pain in your neck and all) are causing you discomfort, you can see a doctor to help you with it. But it cannot be due to hiv because that activity you had at the massage parlour was zero risk.
"You have no hiv" - No ambiguity with this statement, it is as it is, you don't have hiv from this activity. You do not need to test from this activity which was zero risk for hiv.
Take care, and move on from this, ok? You are fine.