To be honest, I am a sex addict. I am a male in my mid-twenties and I am closeted bisexual, and now that I am out of a relationship (with a girl), I've been hooking up with random men from the internet. I know the risks, and it's horrible that I subject myself to such things.
I tend to hookup with white males in my age group (18-29 range) who generally do not fit the description of an HIV positive patient -- however, that's just conjecture. I do not know for sure their statuses, but all have assured me they were negative of STDs. Then I got Herpes 2 from someone.
Anyway, my sexual dalliances with men typically include oral (give and receive), rimming (give), kissing, and anal sex (insertive partner). I use a condom every time, and in some instances I've noticed blood on the condom but the condom has never broken. Only a couple of times have I had unprotected sex for a couple of thrusts in which no blood or semen was present at all. I know that complicates things.
As I said, I have an addiction and I cannot stop myself, but I am beginning to attend Sex Addicts Anonymous in my city. My questions are:
1. Based on the demographics and the acts performed, what is the likelihood of being infection with HIV (I have had no symptoms but for the Herpes 2 outbreak)?
2. What is the connection between Herpes 2 and HIV infections?
I have an ELISA test scheduled for Thursday. Your input in the mean time is greatly appreciated.