Risk Assessment - Clothed Handjob

Hello Dr. EWH / Dr. HHH

I need some advise on the following situation:

We were partying away at a bachelor’s do in Mumbai, India at a pretty shady bar, with ‘available’ waitresses (possibly CSWs in disguise – high risk).

A couple of waitresses were playing with us and drinking from our soft drink bottles. We were sitting on the ground with seemingly dirty mattresses (that most probably had been used for sex before). I was given a hand job by one of the girls. The girl had just visited the restroom before this.

I was completely clothed (trousers, underwear, shirt and vest) and the girl was clothed too, albeit skimpily. So, basically, she massaged my penis from outside the trousers. I did not kiss her (maybe a hug and a peck on the neck and cheek). She had no direct contact with either my mouth or my penis even with her hands. I tried to check her hands to see if I could see any fluid or blood but I could not as she sort of felt I was being weird and walked away.

I am worried about the following:

1. Any risk of HIV / STD from clothing, even if she had some urine / blood / vaginal fluids on her hands? Even theoretical risk?
2. Any risk from the soiled mattress if it had semen / vaginal fluid from a previous romp immediately before?
3. I had an apthous ulcer on my lip and am worried if a kiss on the neck or cheek could be a risk?
4. Could the fact that the waitresses were drinking from the same bottles as us put me at any risk, especially with my ulcer? Even if they had sores / cuts in their mouths?
5. Any conceivable risk at all from this bachelor party for HIV / other STDs? Would you classify all of the above as ‘casual contact’ / ‘Environmental contact’?

I have never had penetrative (even protected) sex in any form (anal, vaginal or oral) outside my marriage, have never done drugs and do not have an occupation that would put me at risk. Anything else I can do to stay safe?

Would a PCR DNA qualitative assay (or an antibody test) be in order for this situation?

[LIZZIE LOU]

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#1...NO
#2...NO
#3...NO
#4...NO AND NO
#5...NO

you had no risk and do not need testing.

hiv is transmitted through...
unprotected vaginal/anal intercourse
sharing iv drug works
mother to child