Risk from handjob with masseuse.

[Wildswans]

I was on a business trip in Bangkok a few months ago and had an in-room massage from the hotel masseuse there. At the end she gave a handjob, focusing more on the head of the penis, with oil. She was fully clothed so no secretions.

My issue is she didn't look very healthy, she had a bit of a cough and I didn't see her hands.

If she had sores/scabs on her hand and this rubbed against my glans/urethra am I at risk?

[Randall40]

You still would not be able to contract HIV this way. HIV cannot survive open air.. What makes you so certain she had cuts or sores on her hands ?

[Randall40]

You have no risk of HIV or any Sti from this .. There was no unprotected vaginal or anal sex.

[Lily_MHModerator]

Hi,

Your question has been answered fully by our members. You had ZERO risk to begin with, since you had NO unprotected anal or vaginal sex. We wish you all the best with your therapy and are now closing this thread.

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[Wildswans]

I just did my Oraquick and it shows one line:

C - Red Line

T - No Line

The instructions say this is a negative. Do you think I need any follow up from a lab? A tiny drop of the liquid from the test tube went on my finger but the liquid was 99.9999999% in the tube. That won't make a difference will it?

Thanks for your help guys.

[AnxiousNoMore]

" I have gone through life anxious of HIV (since I was 8"
You need therapy, so there is nothing else to say.

[Wildswans]

I am going to go to therapy.

[Wildswans]

thanks for your replies. I have gone through life anxious of HIV (since I was 8 and I saw an advert on TV) , but only after unprotected sex. It's only recently I've got it into my head that a handjob could be an issue.

So, the simple rule of wearing a rubber for sex is all you need?

[AnxiousNoMore]

You need to see a therapist if you have spent your life anxious about HIV that you have to use risky behavior to catch. Get professional help instead of repeatedly rephrasing your chatline questions hoping that some new response might change your doubting mind when it is apparent that it hasn't helped.

[Wildswans]

Thanks for the reply. Nothing, never saw any blood but she didn't have great skin on her face and had a cough.

[AnxiousNoMore]

You are imagining that you have medical skills that allow you to diagnose disease and pick out who might deliver that disease, but reality is you have zero med skills. The way back to your happy life is to stick to the science that Randal explained instead of wasting your time in the frightening pretend world you have created.

[Wildswans]

Thanks for your answer. Is that the case even with cuts/sores on the hand directly getting on to the urethra?