Risk of HIV! Please Help

[Idioticdecisions]

HI, just wanted to say thanks to start off with for any help i will receive.

I have been in a relationship with a woman for a year, was tested while together and negative result! Recently we are on a short break and i have mad a stupid decision, I'm in Asia, Thailand  an recently hooked up with a ladyboy! We Preformed unprotected oral sex on each other (so i was incertive and also receptive) , may have been pre cum but we ejaculted through hand jobs. We DID NOT preform any intercourse! What is my risk? So many different answers to this!

Thanks for any help that can be given

[cerdo]

thats right, there is no need for you to test for HIV.

[Idioticdecisions]

Thanks you for your reply, I have had no symptoms! So would you say there is no need to test for HIV before getting back with my gf and resuming unprotected vaginal sex? Either of us had and vaginal or anal sex with anyone apart from each other since tested, only oral which i documented!

Many thanks

[cerdo]

you were not at risk for HIV. but you were at risk for other STDs.  if by chance in the coming days you feel something is wrong with you, it may be because of bacteria you got from your partner. more than 20 different viruses and bacteria can pass from one partner to another during sex. many of these germs, including the bacterium that causes chlamydia and the virus that causes herpes, live on the surface of the genitals. these infections can spread during genital contact, including oral (including kissing) or anal sex. but you were not at risk for HIV.