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Risk w/ Genital Rubbing, Oral
I can get into the fact that I have felt symptoms such as slight tingling lips, minor chronic headache (goes away most the time), throat tightness, body fatigue, muscle aches, etc. But I am worried about one exposure I had. If its a no risk situation I can stop being so anxiety riddled and stressed and hopefully these symptoms will calm down (assuming they are being caused from anxiety and stress.
On to the exposure:
Approximately 9/10 weeks ago, I met a girl downtown at bar in a group of friends that were out. We ended up going back to hotel. The acts that were performed are: fingering (anal and vaginal), oral both ways, and the part I'm worried about is when she got on top of me. My penis wasn't rock hard and she ended up rubbing my penis through her vagina lips, i don't recall insertion, maybe half the tip rubbed hard enough where it slightly was enclosed but I believe it was just the penis being rubbed hard through the labia for 10 seconds (back and forth 3/4 times). Then I brought her up to me and performed oral to eliminate the possibility of actual physical sex.
Can you provide any insight regarding this encounter?
On to the exposure:
Approximately 9/10 weeks ago, I met a girl downtown at bar in a group of friends that were out. We ended up going back to hotel. The acts that were performed are: fingering (anal and vaginal), oral both ways, and the part I'm worried about is when she got on top of me. My penis wasn't rock hard and she ended up rubbing my penis through her vagina lips, i don't recall insertion, maybe half the tip rubbed hard enough where it slightly was enclosed but I believe it was just the penis being rubbed hard through the labia for 10 seconds (back and forth 3/4 times). Then I brought her up to me and performed oral to eliminate the possibility of actual physical sex.
Can you provide any insight regarding this encounter?
I'm just very uneasy about the whole situation. No test is okay with me. I understand symptoms could be from anything but do those symptoms coincide with anxiety/stress? Just trying to get some level of assurance so I can lower my stress/anxiety levels over what I now know is a No Risk act.
No clue what symptoms are from.
If you had no risk then why would you need to test?
If you had no risk then why would you need to test?
Thanks Vance, especially for the quick reply. Been stressed out and anxiety ridden for 5 weeks now. Do you suppose my symptoms are directly related to that? Even feeling tired everyday after getting what i thought was a good nights sleep?
also:
no risk = no need to test correct?
Just asking as this episode was me being drunk and unfaithful. Don't want to hurt my fiance in the process.
Thanks!
also:
no risk = no need to test correct?
Just asking as this episode was me being drunk and unfaithful. Don't want to hurt my fiance in the process.
Thanks!
I also want to add that I asked the girl after the encounter, she claims that she does not have anything. However i don't know her well so whether that can be trusted I'm not sure. Thanks!
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