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Risk with pos girl

Guys I was with a HIV pos girl for 1 night only I was to scared to have sex even with a condom( couldn't risk condom breaking) and I told her to keep her panty on at all time. So what we did was dry humping I was rubbing my penis on her vagina and anal, received oral. And deep kissed.

1) am I at any risk? Low,high
2) when you guys say no penetration no risk? Is that 100% trustable
3) could I of penetrated her threw her panties without knowing(not much memory of the night)
4) can I get HIV rubbing on her panties?
5) is 6 weeks for ars to late to occur?
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That is you, that has nothing to do with the OP. He never had an exposure.
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of course he is lucky. and My advice to Worried4ever is to always cover your penis with rubber in future if u u have sex with that girl.
I would not even take a chance because condoms can break. so keep your sex limited to oral ( with condom, dental dams) and try masturbation.

sorry about my first message....i was bit drunk.
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What about it? He can consider himself lucky.
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No, infection by rubbing genitals is not possible.
Fishes have sex like that...lol...they don't get HIV
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I'm still worried guys, when u people say only risk is unprotected anal and va ginal sex, is that 100% true?? I'm worried that maybe frottage is allow risk ad still has a possibly of me being infected? Has anyone been infected rubbing genitals?
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What about the guy that had unprotected anal sex with 2 different HIV+ men & tested negative--that is the highest risk activity you can engage in.
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No bud you do not have a risk because blood transfusion don't happen this way. Even if you were in real contact (vaginal- anal) with HIV person, chances are slim.
German Singer, Nadja Benaissa had unprotected sex with 3 men multiple times not telling them her HIV positive status. Even though only one was infected.
So Even if having unprotected anal - vaginal sex multiple times with a HIV person can't get you virus how can you get it from oral when it is of NO RISK??

           *****This is what a medical counselor told me******
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I'm sorry don't under stand the "not know it" do you me now know it or that penertrate and not know it sorry in really scared as she is confirmed HIV positve
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Not possible and not know it.
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So i assume u mean it's not possible to penetrate to her panties and since I did not know wether I did penetrate its not a risk. That's why u are saying not a exposure correct?
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You never had an exposure.
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In afraid I may of penetrated her panties I can't just remember :(
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You never had an exposure.
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Is ars at 58 days possible please answer this i fear that I may of penertrated her threw her underwear
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you never had an exposure
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Oral sex is NOT a risk for hiv transmission even if one is positive
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No risk. Had you had penitrative sex you would have known. Hiv is not transmitted by oral sex. Giving or recieving. No you can not get hiv by rubving her underware. Hiv is unable to produce outside a living host. Ars if they occur happen 2/4 weeks after exposure and last 1-2 weeks.
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I did the same thing man and I saw the same woman hanging out the HIV test center many times, she lied to me about her job, she said she is a RN but I doubt she is a patient.
Anyways, here is my situation and I asked it from doctor here

http://www.medhelp.org/posts/HIV---International/HIV-scare-from-receiving-ORAL-and-licking-vaginal-fluids/show/1747540#post_8017665

I hope it will answer your question...as oral sex was the only risky thing you did with that HIV + girl.
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Sunny cab u answer my questions?
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Yes I did why
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Did you get oral without condom? just curious...
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