Thanks for all your answers it helps - am glad people take time on these forums to give reasurance to others - Thanks again
no it does not change the answer of no risk.
thanks for your answers one other thing the condom was tried to be put on the wrong way but obviously would not go on then turned round and put on correctly and rolled all the way down does this change things? It is possible it had precum on it .
You should take a picture of it and post it. Thrush has a fairly defined morphology and is usually instantly recognizable.
Your tongue issues have nothing to do with HIV because you were never at risk of contracting HIV from Oral Sex PERIOD! Also the semen on your hand is not a risk for HIV, HIV does NOT infect outside of its host.
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