Dear Docs Hook & Handsfield,
it's the first time I've written to you and I hope in your personal answers.
I'm an Italian 30 years old gay male usually having long term relationships and always practising what is called safer sex (protected anal; no ejaculation in my mouth and, in 99% of the cases, I protect oral sex too)
Last time I tested was January and the HIV test came back negative.
I do HIV test once a year, as routine screening.
Now an episod is slightly frigthening me. I met a young gay on a chat and we had protected anal sex
(me as bottom). Anal sex was protected from the beginning to the end and I'm pretty sure condom
did not break up because I filled with water after the performance and was ok (by the way, is condom rupture always visible or can be "microscopic"?).
However, before having anal sex I performed NON protected oral sex on the guy for one minute or two, without ejaculation in my mouth, and then we continued with the protected anal sex I just described.
I have known that this guy often asks other guys for having non protected anal sex, so he is a person who could be easily HIV+ (he said to me he gets tested every year for HIV & STD but he could easily lie).
Do I need urgent test for the episode I described?
Thanks in advance for your answer!
Nico