I am a gay male who just had insertive anal sex (within the hour) with an old friend of mine whom I see once in a while (he's in an open relationship).
I used a condom, but after ejaculating A LOT inside him, I pulled out to notice the condom had ripped. Had I noticed it while having sex, I would have pulled out, but I unfortunately did not.
I recently tested negative about three weeks ago for HIV. I will go again soon for his sake at the very least.
He told me he was negative (and that he tests routinely because he is in a relationship), but this has still left me worried.
Should I consider PEP? From what I hear it is a nasty routine of drugs that are expensive (my insurance won't cover it). Or is the risk to an insertive top from one episode in which his partner tells him he is negative low enough to not worry about here?
Thanks