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Rubbing Exposure

Hello,

I'm going for an HIV testing by as you all know, I have anxiety.
I have a girlfriend with unknown HIV status. We have been dating for a month. We've had one sexual relation with a condom ON. But most of the times, I suck her vagina, and rub her clitoris and outside of her vagina to give her pleasure, with my bare penis ( no condom ON). But my penis has always slipped inside her vagina. Some other times, I have penetrated her , bare penis but not didn't actually have sex. I would say, I just wanted her to feel me inside her for couple seconds. One time I did that, I came out with lots of vagina secretions. Also, after rubbing her vagina intensely one time, I felt some soreness of the tip of my penis. When I checked my penis, I didn't see any sore areas. My penis was intact, no blood She had some exams done on her ( vagina secretions ) and it came back with a minor STI that can be cure in one month.
So far, i haven't experienced any of the primary infection of HIV. But you can never be sure.

What are my risks here? HIV can only be transmitted with body fluids contact. During the rubbing, I never ejaculated in or on her. So body fluids exchange on my part.

Thanks for your answer.
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Hello,
Kindly awaiting your answer. Thanks
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Hi Vance and teak,

I did read Teak's statement. He mentioned Unprotected Penetrative Vaginal / Anal Sex.
In my case, I entered my partner couple times with no protection. It was not "sex" ( with repetitive penetrations until ejaculation) but I just went inside her and stay couple seconds and came out. One time, I came out with lots of vaginal secretions on my penis. No cut on my penis. And so far ( it's been almost a month) no HIV primary infections signs. Please help.
Thanks
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Reread Teak statement to you about how HIV is transmitted.
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Hi Vance

Could you please explain why I didn't have any risk? Thanks
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You had no risk.
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Hi Teak

I'm not sure who is break90. But could you please respond to my second comment. I'd greatly appreciate it. Thanks
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Ignore break90, he's a spammer and his posts will be deleted.
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Hi Teak,

So you're saying that I have risk of contracting HIV then, since I kinda had unprotected vaginal sex with my girlfriend (if she is HIV positive) . What about the body fluids therory? How can I be infected with her vagina secretions on my penis, if there is no soreness? How was the body fluids exchange on my part?  Thanks
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HIV is transmitted by;
Unprotected penetrative anal and/or vaginal sex
Sharing works with other IV drug users
Mother to child
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