STD exposure from protected oral sex

I had a protected oral sex on May 07, 2010. I fingered her while she was permorming oral on me. After fingering her, i touched her breasts with the same finger and i sucked her breasts. I am not sure whether her vaginal fluid went inside my mouth while sucking her breast. She also licked my thigh area before performing oral on me. After 4 weeks later, I saw a small lesion on my thigh area, but it went away next morning while taking bath. I also felt uncomfortable with my mouth when i eat spicy foods, i felt itchiness in my mouth at that time. I felt i contracted oral and genital herpes from the above exposure and went on to take the WHOLE STD package after 4 weeks and all came back NEGATIVE. I am also feeling headache for the last 2-3 weeks. I am planning to take another Herpes test next week (After 8 weeks).  Any advice on this exposure??

[Morty92]

Regarding the HIV risk, you had none.  

You cannot transmit the HIV virus by touching, fingering, or licking.  You engaged in safe sex, so you are OK.  

Your oral and genital herpes question can be dealt with in the STD forum.

[unfaithful_50]

Thanks Morty, Today I had completed 8th week and had clearview Rapid Test at planned parenthood, fortunately it came back NEGATIVE. What are the chances that this Negative test result change into Positive after 12th week? Do I really need to test after 12th week considering that i had only a protected oral sex or Can I move on my life with this 8 week result as a conclusive result?

[Teak]

You have already been advised that you didn't have a risk of contracting HIV. That means you didn't need to test.

[unfaithful_50]

Thanks Teak, I tested after 8th week because I need a peace of mind. The Drs in this forum says, even if you had a risk, if you tested negative after 8th week, it is conclusive.
Now I can move on. I will never ever do this in my life. I am committed now. Thanks Teak and everyone in this forum. You guys are doing an excellent job here...