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Safe sex but fingering wasn't

Been trying to ask this in the Doctor's forum but never get through. Last night I had protected sex with a guy. Condom didn't break, I checked. My worries are that before sex wee masturbated each other, he rimmed me, and fingered me. Fingering is what I'm what I'm worried about. The guy touched his penis during this act. Precum was more than likely present. He fingered me right after touching it. I know he had precum on his finger after this. I'm a mess now.
I read conflicting information in the Doc's archives. Some posts say fingering doesn't pose a risk, even with precum. Then I read that they say fingering with precum present is really risky. I'm really confused. Any info is appreciated till I'm able to post to the Docs is appreciated.
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You didn't have a risk.
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You didn't answer  my last question.
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Thank you. I'll still keep trying the Docs forum. What you said about losing its infectiouness once outside the body apply to me? It was probably 10 seconds at most from his penis to my butt.
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Still apply.

HIV is unable to reproduce outside its living host (unlike many bacteria or fungi, which may do so under suitable conditions), except under laboratory conditions, therefore, it does not spread or maintain infectiousness outside its host.
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Thanks for the links, but I'm a guy that was fingered by another guy with precum. Those are nothing like my situation.
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Should I ask the Docs?
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NO RISK.
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