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Safe sex with may not be safe!! I need an advise?

Safe sex with may not be safe!! I need an advise?

Hello
I met a guy, I am a bi man, , online, who told me he was married and negative, I asked and insisted on that.
We had brief oral, either ways, but there was kissing, deep at times. He then tried to penetrate me with no protection, and off-coarse I refused, but he was ignoring my request till I pulled back and asked him to leave. What strikes me is what he said before leaving that HE IS POSITIVE, on meds but undetectable, which was his reason to state he is negative.

Off-coarse I will try to talk to a lawyer to see what legal process I may be able to do to protect myself, but no surprise, I am very anxious because of his attempt to penetrate me, and I also noticed skin cracks on my penis (small open wounds, very small thought, not sure if fresh or healed), I AM TRULY ANXIOUS?

No the simple Q is what was my risk? do I need PEP now?
Please advice , I learned not to trust anyone, even I did my best to protect myself! Well I am still hoping God will help me, and protect me!
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You never had a risk and he's an idiot that doesn't know what he's talking about.Undetectable does NOT mean negative.Also,you don't require nPEP because there was no penetration at all.Just test for common STD's and that's it.
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I appreciate your input guys, but AGAIN, THERE WAS CRACKS ON THE HEAD OF MY PENIS, I MEANT DRY SMALL CUTS (I don't want to assume they were fresh), WILL THIS BE OF ANY RISK?
Similarly for the deep kissing?
I hated that guy, he is dull an should be punished for his ignorant act!
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If you had unprotected  anal  penetration then you are at very high risk.Oral sex and Kissing are zero risk.Don't trust  on anyone's HIV status verbally.It is your duty to use condoms.
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