Scared

HI Im really concerned about the risk involve with my sexual encounter.
I am in college and It was my first time having sex. He did penetrate me unprotected but he did not *** inside me. I also gave him unprotected oral. I don't know his status but I'm afraid I may have contracted HIV from him.
I saw a commercial about getting tested and have been stressing ever since. Now I have neck and upper back aches I can't focus, I feel light headed all the time, I start to shake sometimes just thinking about it and today i had light colored stool for the first time. It was only one time and I've been informed that one time is very low risk but I can't help but think i have something. What's the chance that I have contracted it? I don't have a car in which to go get tested and am afraid to ask someone.

[LIZZIE LOU]

dont most colleges have medical clinics?

[JenMopy2]

yes we do. Your opinion please.

[LIZZIE LOU]

my opinion is that he more than likely doesnt have hiv.

my suggestion would be to get tested to know your status.

3 months post exposure will give you a conclusive result.

UNTIL you are in a monogamous relationship where both of you have tested...ALWAYS use condoms.  sex lasts a few minutes...HIV LASTS A LIFETIME.

[JenMopy2]

thank you so much for your opinion.
what are the chances that he has caught it from another woman...he has a baby and a baby momma for lack of a better term and he says neither one has anything.
also i believe he popped my cherry how much does that raise the chances?