Sex with China sex worker

Hi:

I visited China two weks ago. I had a sex with a sex worker. She gave me sucking without condom, afterward, she licking my anus around 1/2 minute (I may had a small wound on my anus then since hard dumping). At least, we had a protected vaginal-sex (with condom).
I catched cold 2 days after above,Now, I always feel sore throat & tired recently. Does above means I being infected HIV? How risks am I?

Thx

wpk

[In_need_of_MedHELP]

Partner, you can't be serious.
I wish all I had was your "problem", I wouldn't be on this site fretting about my real HIV exposure.

Dude, chill out. You DO NOT, DO NOT, literally DO NOT have HIV, and you will NOT get it from what you described.
Rest easy, and get off this site. Your problem is not HIV, your problem is ignorance.

[wpk]

Thx...Your sound as same as the helper of some med hotline I met. They said I had a "theoretical" risk only & suggest me stop to read any more information about HIV from those forum.
However, I can't chill at all..........Anyway, thx again....

[wpk]

Initially, I already clam down since last post....but, 3 days ago (25 days after the exposure), a huge sore throat came back ago, it gave me a burn feeling till yesterady night. The worry was affected my life for the last few weeks, I can't sleep well & feel very sorry to my wife & daughter...I propose to have a rapid test on six weeks after the exposure (means two weeks later), but it hard to bear my fear for two weeks more, is it good for me to a test now (a month after the exposure)?  

[Teak]

http://www.medhelp.org/posts/show/711922?personal_page_id=348763&post_id=post_3769437

[wpk]

I am not fooling around...Since 89 & 90 days after my exposure are hoilday so my local CDC would not in service, that's why I ask 88 days is good enough for test....
Todays just 34 days after the exposure. My painful neck , sore throat also flu are make me crazy. I seldom got sick before this exposure, but after this regret incident, I can't eat well, sleep well for the past Dec. Once I saw my little daughter, together in my mind that I may infected HIV, I wanna suicide...I already make an appointment with my local CDC to have a rapid test 10 days later (13/1), I know the test result (six weeks after incident) , but I hope a neg result would had in order to ease parts of my worry....

[Teak]

You didn't have a risk. You didn't need testing which you did and it was negative.

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[wpk]

Sorry, Teak...but I really can't make myself chill...

[Teak]

Then seek professional mental help to help you deal with your issues.

[wpk]

Teak...Thanks a lot...Your above information support me to pass throught the last 6 weeks....Today (44 days after the exposure), I had a neg rapid test result ....Hope I could still have the neg result again for more six weeks later....

[wpk]

updated on my case...lucky got a NEG at 70 days antibody test...

[LIZZIE LOU]

LUCKY???  you're only "lucky" when you actually had a risk.

[wpk]

updated on my case again...Got a NEG at 85 days antibody test... I think I could move on now...Thanks Teak &  In_need_of_MedHELP...