Sex with a stranger..Pls help me.

I went to a club with my new friend about 3 weeks ago, everything was fine until he asked me to go home with him. It was nearly 10 Pm. I couldn't control myself so I had sex with him. At first, he didn't use condom..After nearly 2 minutes I asked him to use it. We also tried oral sex. But he didn't ejaculate inside me. I'm very worried now..He said he had had a test and everything was ok. But i didn't trust him, I also asked him many times if he was positive, but he said he only had sex with his girlfriends. I didn't know much about him...I don't have many symptoms, no fever or body aches. I'm really mad and depressed. I'm only 16 and I can't go to have a test. The only thing makes me worried is he seems to be hiding me, he doesn't reply my messages or answer the phone. He just said that his father was in the hospital and he had to take care of his dad. He's older than me 12 years old and I'm sure he has had sex with many girls. =((

[yetmrdeta]

why u cant have test at 16??

[Teak]

You can test 3 months post exposure to obtain a conclusive test result.

[funky_beige]

I am really scared and I'm not ready for the worst thing. The second thing is I can't go to have a test alone..I don't want my parents to know this. It sounds so stupid. I can't face the truth if it really happens.

[funky_beige]

Please tell me am I at any risk..

[yetmrdeta]

hiv is very difficult to get frm a single unprotected exposure
go with any other elder person u may know other than ur parents nd get tested aftr 3 months, till than relax

[jackustoff]

talk to a counsler or health advisor at your school, in the meantime keep calm, there is nothing you or anyone else can do to change the outcome (even though its most probably negative).

[MiddleAgedMember]

Okay, you had unprotected sex and are worried.  Perfectly normal, although I suspect you are more concerned about the stigma than the event.  Anyway, you don't mention where you are at, but if you are in US and your partner is not an IV drug user, bi sexual or just got out of prison, the odds are greatly in your favor that he is not infected.  If he was (and he probably isn't) the odds he infected you after one time event is very, very low.  Overall, I think given your ages, you are much more at risk for standard STDs than HIV.  You should find a way to get tested, if for no other reason than your peace of mind.  Take advantage of your school counselor, nurse or clergy.  Believe me when I tell you there is not much they have not heard already.  I know it seems hard now, but finding a trusted person to talk to will help tremendoulsy.  An std panel now and a HIV test at about 6 wks will work wonders for your state of mind.