Slightly loose condom and fluid inside condom

Hi Guys,

I was wondering if you could alleviate some of the fears i have!

I made a stupid mistake and slept with an escort. She and I spoke briefly before about importance of safe sex. I used protection for both oral and straight sex. She seemed like a careful girl but only had been tested once before.

However, during changing positions etc i noticed the condom was riding high a little so rolled it down from the base some more but that made the condom even bigger (if that makes sense) so there was a lot hanging off at the top. I moved this down also to make it fit better. When i was doing this i noticed that the condom had changed slightly in colour and that it looked as if there was moist fluid inside. Different to the normal type that is in there. I couldnt properly make out if this was on the outside or the inside though to be honest in the heat of the moment. I also noticed it was loose around the base at this point which got me thinking..could any of her vaginal fluids moved up towards my urethra area during the motions? I am particularly worried about HIV. She also applied suitable lube (durex) to her vagina which could have been the cause for a lot of the wetness.

Any advice is greatly appreciated and I hope to hear from someone soon

Cheers

[Pooya]

No risk, till the condom covers the head of your penis, there is no risk

[Singh1]

Brilliant thanks Pooya. would it be an idea to get tested though or is my risk 0? the condom was covering the head the whole time. However, above the head inside the condom i fear there was vaginal fluid. or is that completely impossible to contract HIV like that?

[Singh1]

Anyone..?  

dont mean to be pushy but just want to put this behind me..

[Teak]

No you cannot contract HIV in that manner.

[Singh1]

I love you guys :)

[mike_no]

Absolutely no risk whatsoever. As long as the tip of your penis was covered, there is no risk of contracting the virus.

[Singh1]

that is great to hear. Thankyou for everyones responses. I just panicked and thought something bad could happen if the fluid got inside.

I am much happier now :)

[Singh1]

Hi guys

It's been two months now since my encounter and hadn't really thought about it until now. I have had bad diarrhoea for about a week now and was paranoid that it could be Ars? Is this a possibility or am I just being overly paranoid!! I have had no other symptoms at all. In the uk they say testing is after 3 months but would it be an idea to do it at 2? Cheers for your help guys I know there are people out here who aren't satisfied with the answers you give.

[Teak]

You do not have an HIV concern.