I had an unprotected sex in late April & early May 2008 with a girl who claimed she had had sex once with a guy in 2006. Though her private part was quite tight for me to penetrate, I perceived a foul smell coming out from her virginal track while the show was going on. Two weeks later, I had a sore throat, followed by a yellowish discharge from my genitals a week later (third week after sex). Before I penetrated her, I caressed all over her body, but did not use my tongue on her private part. It was during the foreplay that I perceived the foul smell from her private part. I immediately went for a STD test which they said its a bacteria, but I know its gonorrhoea. I did not go for HIV test either.
Sometime in June 2008, I had something like a swolen gland close to my thigh but its located around my pubic area, which later disappeared though I used to have boils around my pubic area especially when I clean up the hairs. Six months after the sexual intercourse, I lost about 6kg though I was not feeding very well two months before the loss of weight.
My question is! Can a woman discharge foul smelling fluids from her private part? While the discharge from her private continues, is it possible to give STD to any one that have sex with her? Is it possible to be a carrier of any STD in that state of foul smelling discharge from her private part? What about the sore throat?
Its almost one year since the incidence, and am so afraid to check for HIV infection. What I want to know is about the possibility of catching HIV since I got the sore throat and later the swollen gland. Is it possible to develop initial symptoms of HIV infection at intervals or do they occur at the same time with each other? Is it possible to have gotten the sore throat from caressing and kissing all over her body including buttocks, but I did not touch her private part and anus with my tongue. What i did was an unprotected virginal sex with her.
Thanks.
Jonny