Teak , if you dont mind answering this ,how did you get the HIV from what ?
I'm sorry I confused you with another poster about the positive g/f but the answers are the same.
It can cause irritation of the lining of the urethra in males and do the same thing, but you know your g/f is positive you won't be having unprotected sex.
so it can increase the risk for womans not for males , right ?
Spermicides can cause irritation in the vaginal lining and can increase the risk of contacting HIV when having UNPROTECTED sex not protected.