Stressed, worried, and frustrated

[stressedLost]

Hi,

(First I must say, at this time I am crying)

I never had sex (penetrative or oral). Exactly 5 weeks back, I travelled to a massage parlour stupidly.
I am very anxious about HIV concerns and I was fully clothed (under-wear, jean, shirt on) and did not have sex with the massage girl.

She was nude, and out of curiosity I sucked her nipples (1 min). I dont knw abt blood, milk, etc. I dont knw her status. I dont knw nipple's condition.

Pls help me. If HIV duo-test at this stage (5 weeks) can tell me something.


P.S.
I love a girl and we were going to get married....now I think, I am stupid!


Thanks for the support

Rehards,
Stressed one!

[RainLover71]

You appear to be talking to yourself,you never had a risk & it's time to seek professional mental help.

[stressedLost]

"..................You need to get a handle on real HIV risks.  Safe sex isn't all that complicated:  if a bare penis (no condom) doesn't get into another person's vagina, rectum or mouth, there is no risk of sexual transmission of HIV.  You can count on it. "


So sex which spread Hiv is explained above. That means sucking of nipples is not sex which transmit hiv/stds?

[stressedLost]

Ok One more scenario after reading from posts

1 -breast implants/surgery
2- breast piercing?
3- breast mole?

poses additional risks?

[stressedLost]

I want for peace of mind really!
So u *Declare openly* that this incident is NO RISK and I shld move on to my relationship without any concerns?
I must say she was CSW

[Teak]

Why would you want to test when you never had an exposure?

[stressedLost]

can I go for the duo-test at 5 weeks?

[LIZZIE LOU]

hiv is not transmitted to adults in the manner that you are describing.

you had NO risk