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Stupidity causing major anxiety

Stupidity causing major anxiety

Right now I am being consumed by this and I need to find some kind of solace. I am a straigt male. However, roughly 3 months ago I met up with a tranny off the internet. I asked her if she was clean and she said yes. We had two encounters. The first I beleive to be no risk - I received oral and we gave each other hand jobs.

I am worried about the second encounter which seems to fit the description of high risk. I received and gave oral, did not taste precum and spit all saliva out as this was going on. Next I was rimmed and my anus fingered. An attempt was made at me receiving anally, however it hurt too much and after a short period of her trying to ease it in went soft and gave up. There was penetration, but I am not sure if there was any precum. I then penetrated her anus for a good period of time unprotected. After a while I received a handjob and oral to climax.

I have shown no symptoms other than a sore throat which I do not attribute to ARS since it seemed to be something going around at the time. I understand absence of symptoms does not mean absence of infection. I am awaiting test results which I should have at the beginning of next week. I emailed the person in question and asked if they had actually been tested recently and am awaiting a response. It's amazing how hiindsight changes the whole situation. It was enough for her to say she was clean before but now I don't trust that one bit.

As I said before our first encounter was pretty much no-risk by the standards I have seen, so her are my questions.

1. How high is the risk in what I have described?
2. Will I need another test after 6 months if this one comes back negative or should it be conclusive?

In the end, it was a disgusting experience for me and have no intentions on being with a ts ever again. I honestly don't know what came over me to even want a first experience with a ts. Lesson learned about wearing protection as well.
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Any unprotected anal sex is a high risk. A 3 month test gives a conclusive result.
Always use condoms.
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HIV can be transmitted orally, anally, and vaginally. Even attempting to stick it in could pass bodily fluids. Symptoms of HIV can be Swollen lymph nodse, fever, night sweats, sore throat, Muscle aches, fatigue. It also can mimic Mono and other less threatening illnesses like the Flu. What happened was high risk and the only way to know is to test. I think now the test should be able to pick up if you're + or - now. Hope this helped
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I ask that you not post at this time do to the fact that you just asked a question yourself and you are giving out some wrong info.
Oral sex is not a risk for HIV. Several studies have proven that.

And listing symptoms is never a good idea because there is a specific time frame if one does get symptoms and you can never use symptoms to get an indication of HIV because they can be link to several different things.
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Well, some good news. I received a response to my email and she said she was tested two weeks ago and was negative all around. I know this doesn't really affect any of you but i had to express my relief somehow. Of course, I still have some concerns until my doctor calls and tells me the results, but I feel a little better now.
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