TEAK AND ALL -- SHOULD I BE WORRIED?

[nutting77]

I had protected sex with another male (i'm a man) -- this part i'm not worried about. But i performed oral sex on him as well -- not full on for a long time but his penis was in  my mouth for a few seconds about 3 different times. He did not ejaculate in my mouth, but he may have ahd pre-***. Also after i had ejaculated -- he rubbed my penis along his anus -- using my *** as lube (i guess thats the way to describe).. he may have had some of his *** on there too.. but i'm not sure.

are any of these concerns? I havent felt sick.. but its been a month now (4 weeks ) and i wole up the other day with a swollen lymph node on my neck. Just one, -- maybe marble sized ball--- the fact i'm not sick is what concerns me about that lymph node. could it be reacting to an HIV infection - and I'm just not experiencing any ARS symptoms?

HIs status.. he says he's negative/std free, but he also wanted me to have sex with him without a condom -- i refused. so i puton the condom. I just met him so dont know much about his past, but he says he hooks up often -- and if he wanted me to go in bareback...i'm scared he does that with other men and just assumes he's negative.

[Teak]

You had protected sex and the oral sex was not a risk. Wouldn't have mattered if he were HIV positive or not.

[Teak]

Make sure you always use condoms for anal and vaginal sex until you have tested with your partner together.

[nutting77]

Good Advice!!! I always use condoms.. its the oral taht worries me.

I do have a question about swollen lymph nodes. Someone with ARS -- would that person have several lymph nodes swollen -- or maybe just one?

[nutting77]

Anyine know about Lymph Nodes and ARS? Howong they are swollen for, is it just one or more? can it be just one?

Thanks