Teak / Avonelle38 give me a patient hearing

Dear Dr HHH,

I'm married and have a 6 month old baby.

Recently in thailand, i went for a regular massage and the CSW gave me protected oral. It was rough and my penis hurt thanks to her teeth ( guess she was an amateur ). She licked my scrotum and sucked my balls I got a oil massage done. Before she could even start, she had asked me big money for which i refused and negotiated for less. Guess she dint like it.

After that, next day, i went to a CSW for vaginal sex. Asked her if she has HIV for which she said NO. She gave me protected oral, sucked my scrotum. I just got intimate and hugged her closely. Since she had just one condom,and that was used for oral, i couldnt have sex.

Soon after a 4 days, i got a severe sore throat, with white spots in my ovula and red spots on the mouth roof. ( i drank cold beer and smoked during my stay in thailand ). They went off in 15 days. My nodes in the neck had become big and pained a lot. I have started feeling the nodes in my arms and groin area ( after reading the symptoms ) and feel them too.

no fever, no rash. I had lost my appetite though for some days. I'm sure i dont have any other std's as no visual outbreaks or symptoms.

1) Can the symptoms be related to ARS
2) What are my HIV chances
3) Do people try to spread HIV deliberately if the customers annoy them / saddistic behavior.
4) Do i need to test. iam **** scared.
5) Can i have unprotected sex with my wife ?
6) Is strep, a symptom of HIV , i think i had strep
7) I'm an overly anxious person - your patient answering will do a world of good to my mind and regular well being. I love you guys.

Teak/ Avonelle, i know your understanding in this field is immense. Dont get annoyed by my above questions. Kindly do let me know my risks. Me getting a serious strep with white and red spots in my mouth right after 4-5 days after the above exposure cant be a coincidence. I havent got strep in my entire life. iam 30 yrs old. Please patiently answer teak. I love my family and daughter. dying of guilt and anxiety every moment

[LIZZIE LOU]

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you have been assessed as NOT having a risk.  please...dont keep starting new posts repeating the same thing over and over.

deal with the guilt...its not hiv.

[Nikkkkkkkkk]

Hey Lizzie, how can you be so sure and take my post for granted. All i'm asking for is a patient hearing and a risk assessment. How can you be so rude ? I really respct you

[Vance2335]

She is not being rude, we have already told you that you did not have a risk. We are not here to do it everyday. You have been assested with no risk...move on.

[Nikkkkkkkkk]

But, my only question is Me getting a serious strep with white and red spots in my mouth right after 4-5 days after the above exposure cant be a coincidence

[Vance2335]

IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH HIV AS YOU HAVE BEEN TOLD. What more do you want this forum to tell you?

There is no way that you picked up a cold or another virus right? Just impossible right?

[Nikkkkkkkkk]

God you guys are so curt and insensitive. Why cant you put your msg across nicely...Thanks !!

I'm scared..please read my post

[Nikkkkkkkkk]

Go ahead and ban me if you want. But, iam not satisfied the way you guys have assessd me .....

[Vance2335]

So telling you that you did not have a risk is not good enough? Then what is?

I have a better idea, stop going to prostitutes since you are married and have a child, seek therapy for help with anxiety and guilt.

We are not here to go around and around with you because you "think" this or that. We have told you that it is not a risk and kumar did a great job of doing that.

My message comes across nice to 99% of the people but people who refuse to read or refuse to understand what they have been told, we need to be harsh with and maybe they will then understand.

[Nikkkkkkkkk]

Wow..awesome well done

[Nikkkkkkkkk]

I had a bad bout of cold, fever and diarrhea in the last one week. I had unprotected sex with my wife 3-4 times in the last 3 weeks assuming i was fine ( thanks to rapid blood test after 8 weeks ). Now she has got a cold and down with fever. My 10 months old daughter is on breast milk and she has also got a cold. i'm terrified and think that my life is over.

Vance - please read and assess for the last time man. I'm down and out.

I will not post again

[Teak]

Do you think that cold and flu season is here might just have something to do with it?

YOU DON'T HAVE AN HIV CONCERN.