Thank you for taking time out to read my question.

Here is my quesiton I am a black male (Some people say it matter some people say it don't) I am from Lousiana. I had sex with a white female who dates black guys. She is from Arkansaw.  I read on the internet from a news paper where she is from.  There where it say there is 153 cases of HIV in the county she lives in.  It is a small area!  (that is why I have been so consern).  I took an hiv test at 10 weeks and it has came up negtive.  Also I have had her take an hiv test that has came up negtive.  Which is 41 days from when we both had sex.  Should I still be conserned? at the 10 week mark and also knowing her test came up negtive at 41 days after we had sex??  I just don't know what she did before the 41 days.  I hope this is makeing since.  I can't get her to take another test. I know she want.  It was vaginal and oral.  Thank you for your time.

[LIZZIE LOU]

relax...it is HIGHLY UNLIKELY that your 10 week test will change.  just test at the 3 month mark for that conclusive result.

UNTIL you are in a monogamous relationship where BOTH of you have tested...ALWAYS USE CONDOMS.  sex lasts a few minutes...HIV LASTS A LIFETIME ! !

[LIZZIE LOU]

relax...it is HIGHLY UNLIKELY that your 10 week test will change.  just test at the 3 month mark for that conclusive result.

UNTIL you are in a monogamous relationship where BOTH of you have tested...ALWAYS USE CONDOMS.  sex lasts a few minutes...HIV LASTS A LIFETIME ! !

[reeseym]

Thank you Lizzie Lou.  It was sooooooo not worth it.