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HIV Prevention (Expert Forum)
There's a twist...I swear
by joeonthego, Nov 02, 2007 10:50AM
I was recently give a handjob by someone I had just met. It seemed completely safe, but the woman did spray some breast milk onto the head of my penis. I think most likely one or two drops entered my urethra. I wasn't too worried about it until we were done. I asked her if she had anything. She said she was HIV+ but not to worry since we didn't really do anything dangerous. I know that breast milk is not really a substance to worry about, so I was reassured. But then I asked her if she had a high viral load. She said yes since she was recently infected but still not to worry.
Since then I have researched and found a question similar to mine on this website. However, I was remain worried because I know for a fact this woman has an exceedingly high viral load, which was not the case in the previous question. Do you recommend testing for this exposure, or am I overreacting?
Since then I have researched and found a question similar to mine on this website. However, I was remain worried because I know for a fact this woman has an exceedingly high viral load, which was not the case in the previous question. Do you recommend testing for this exposure, or am I overreacting?
Doctor's Answer
by H. Hunter Handsfield, M.D., Nov 02, 2007 12:58PM
, Nov 02, 2007 12:58PM
Well, I have to say you surprised me! This might be the first time I have heard of a "twist" that might actually make a difference. This assumes, of course, that yours is a straight story: that's the first I have ever heard of using breast milk in a sexual context. And it seems improbable that a woman would know that she is positive, recently infected, knows her viral load to be high, and also has the insight to know to tell you that particular sexual practices are safe. Even if you are being truthful, I have to wonder whether your partner is.
You are correct that exposure to breast milk is not generally high risk, because HIV viral load is low in milk and not highly infectious (same as sweat and saliva--and both mammary and salivary glands are biologically very similar to sweat glands). However, to my knowledge there are no data specifically about HIV viral load in milk during a woman's initial HIV infection. You also are right in your apparent understanding that hand-genital contact isn't a risk.
Despite the uncertainties about the effect of your partner's supposed new HIV infection, I consider your risk too low to worry about and see no clear need for an HIV test. But most people nervous enough to ask the question, and in particular to come to this forum and spend $15.00, are not be able to relax based only on my reassurance. If that applies to you, it's fine with me if you get tested.
Note the forum rule about a maximum of 2 MedHelp questions in a 6 month period.
HHH, MD
You are correct that exposure to breast milk is not generally high risk, because HIV viral load is low in milk and not highly infectious (same as sweat and saliva--and both mammary and salivary glands are biologically very similar to sweat glands). However, to my knowledge there are no data specifically about HIV viral load in milk during a woman's initial HIV infection. You also are right in your apparent understanding that hand-genital contact isn't a risk.
Despite the uncertainties about the effect of your partner's supposed new HIV infection, I consider your risk too low to worry about and see no clear need for an HIV test. But most people nervous enough to ask the question, and in particular to come to this forum and spend $15.00, are not be able to relax based only on my reassurance. If that applies to you, it's fine with me if you get tested.
Note the forum rule about a maximum of 2 MedHelp questions in a 6 month period.
HHH, MD
