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Thinking of having HIV

Hi Doctor, 2 and a half months ago I visited a sex club in Berlin (Can I mention the club?). This club has also a website on the internet.

I only went with 1 prostitute of this club.  The last time I had sex was about 9months ago and did not have any stds before going to the club.

While we where waiting for a room she was INFRONT of me. she had her *** infront of me(so we were both facing at the wall). She masturbated my penis from underneath and I think she touched her vagina on the outside (I wasn't wearing a condom at that time)
Then she gave me oral sex (without a condom) for 2minutes and stopped.
Then I had sexual intercourse (WITH a condom) for about 3minutes (maximum) and stopped.


After 12 days of this exposure I tested for all all stds and my doctor found chlamadia.
Now I'm gonna test in Feb (3months and a half would have pass).

Is it possible to get chlamadia this way?

The fact that they ONLY found chlamadia after 12days is it in favour of me?
I am thinking that going with a prostitute you can catch every std. So in my mind the fact for example i didnt catch gonorhea this means that at a point in time she had gonorhea and cured it. So if she has hiv i think she is taking care of it which means the chances of catching hiv are smaller than a person who is not taking care of it.  Am I thinking the right way?


What are the chances that I contracted HIV from this encounter?


I am having flu but nearly all of my friends are getting flu so I think this doesnt count so much.


Thanks for your help :-)
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Good news!
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Well good news on the results.
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Recieved my HIV results. HIV NEGATIVE after 3months and12days..

The strange thing is that they tested for syphillis and hiv only. i asked them if i do have hepititis, and they told me that they didn't test for it. I dont know why. Now they are going to test me for hepititis in 4 weeks time...

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Hi Vance2335, test kits haven't arrived yet. I phoned the supplier and told me they should arrive by monday.. so hopefully I get tested.

I will test my results as soon as I get tested.
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Ok i'll try to think about this to move on...


I thank you alot for your support "Vance2335"

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No worries, HIV is not passed that way.
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I am not worrying about the oral sex but I am thinking that some vaginal liquids touched my penis while she was masturbating because my penis was beneath her vagina and maybe while she was masturbating she touched her vagina or maybe she fingered her vagina and then touched the tip of my penis..

those are my worries :S
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I think you have no reason for testing because you can't get HIV from receiving oral sex.
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hope as you are saying guys because i am very veryyyy worried...


I just orderred the test kits "Vance2335". Hopefully they will arrive on wednesday or thursday.  I orderred 4 of them so I can run 1 every 2 weeks. Apart from that i have a test in a hospital aswell but its at the end of February so I can run the test kits before the hospital test.  I phoned the company who sells these kits in my country and told me that the result is accurate as the ones which are produced by hospital.

so i think if the result is negative it should ease a bit my mind after 2 and half months. what do you think?
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Getting chlymida from oral sex is possible, just not very likely.
HIV from oral sex is not possible. Zero documentated cases of a man receiving oral sex and getting HIV.
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because many ppl say that if a woman performs oral sex on man, the woman cannot give clamadia to man. you got it because a woman performed oral sex on you?


I am thinking that I got clamadia not from oral sex but maybe from some vaginal liquids which came out from her vagina. maybe she had some liquids coming out and penis head touched here while she masturbating or maybe she touched the liquid that was coming out and then continues to masturbate me.


This was the first and LAST 1 night stand i ever had..

In my life I ONLY had sex with my ex girlfriend and this ONE night stand...

so i hope god forgives me for the 1 mistake I made....
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what you described here is a no risk situation for HIV ... yes it is possible to get chlamydia from oral sex  (i got it from oral sex) and if you get chlamydia that does not mean you would necessarily have something else. Chlamydia is easier to get than other stds
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You didn't have a risk of contracting HIV. HIV is transmitted via unprotected anal or vaginal sex not through masturbation.
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