To Teak....need your expertise....

Teak, I have posted here so many times. I am not as scared as I have been in the past. Quick senerio.....Jan of this year (around Jan 5th-10th or so.....a perfomed fellatio on a man of unknown serostatus....whom says he is clean and disease free. March 7th-8th got a sore throat so bad I had to get a z-pak to treat it. Have had runny stools and a white tongue. Tons of oral ulcers that went away with Valtrex. Tested 2 1/2 weeks after the incident...neg for everything, even HIV. After getting the sore throat, I soon after got a rash 2 weeks later with EXTREMELY sore joints/muscle pain everywhere in my body. BTW this guy did not ejaculate...pre-*** no ejac...I spat the rest out. I had a small ulcer in my mouth at the time. Now my gums are soar and part of them becoming discolored (light black) my doc tells me not to worry, gives me zoloft. Off and on issues up until now. Doing pretty well then suddenly I get ANOTHER sore throat! Plus gel like **** in my mouth....like a film. I don't know what to do. My dr says not to re-test, but if I feel like I should to do it. I am so scared.....what do you think about my issue. I need u Teak I trust your opinion......

[Teak]

Sun, if I were you I would got to an ENT to see what is going on. You don't have to worry about the oral sex. Don't let the worry of HIV keep you from seeking answers for something else that is going on.

[sun2moon4starr]

Teak, Thank you. I guess I paniced because I have not been sick in a long long while, then suddenly..BOOM! Did I speak w/u through email? I sure respect your answers. Thank you Teak, u are patient and full o' knowledge. Just to ask, did u ever experiance joint/muscle pain in your first few months?

-Sun

[sun2moon4starr]

I typed the question above.....  =)

[Teak]

No, I never had symptoms when I got infected. I didn't get sick at all for 21 years and that was when my CD4s crashed and I got an OI and still battling the OI.