Dear Doctor,I’m male from China, sorry for any error in my written English.
I had posted this on the "HIV Prevention Community", and got some comments, but I still can't relax, I really need ur professional advice.
In July last year, I had a unprotected oral sex with a man met in internet, I was the insertive, he sucked me a few times then I cum by his handjob. I felt slight pain on my penis, and I couldn't find any cut. I had a shower about 30 minutes later.
In Sep , I had another experience: with another guy that I met in internet, we had a French kiss, then shower together, but his precum touched my head of penis. We had a unprotected oral sex, I was the insetrive. We also had a protected anal sex with a Durex “Extra safe” condom, and I was the top, We didn’t have any lube handy,so we used lots of his spit. Because I was very nervous , I cum less than one minutes. The condom seemed intact, because I saw all the semen was in the condom.
In Nov, I red some document about HIV and I was really scared, Suddenly I found a little headache and sore throat, even painful in my left arm, and all of this lasted about 2 weeks.
I have red alot from this website about oral sex, but I do feel slight pain after the fisrt oral sex , IF there is a slight cut that can't be noticed on my penis, and in this situation, am I at risk for HIV?
I am also worried about the anal sex, We used a condom but didn't use the lubrication. I don't think the condom was borken, but I am not very sure, maybe a tiny hole......
And the KISS, I remembered I swallowed trace amounts of his saliva.
Now I am very very worry and scared. I really need ur help. Am I at risk for HIV? Do I need to get a test?
Thanks alot and Happy lunar new year to you.