Exposure: Man ejaculates then uses the still wet semen as lubricant to finger my vagina. It was about 5 minutes, give or take, before he fingered me. He used all the semen on his fingers so it was a full load. There was no penis penetration at all.
Question: if the man is HIV+, does this pose a risk? If so, how much. I have read so much about whether HIV is still infectious once it has left the body, but I'm really not clear about whether 5 minutes is enough for it to lose its infectiousness, especially as the semen was still wet and I was deep fingered. I have read on here that fingering is not a risk but wanted to make sure on the specifics of this episode, as I can't see how this differs from unprotected receptive vaginal sex. Could someone please explain.
Many Thanks