Vaginal fluids on tip and licking semen on breasts

Hi,

I had protected oral sex and protected vaginal intercourse with an escort - sex worker - in the UK. She is Bulgarian and has been working in the city for 10 months or so.

Anyway, I have a real concern and feel really anxious, as during sex I licked her nipples extensively. I had rinsed my mouth with mouthwash just 20 minutes or so before and had a lot of bleeding from my gums (I have bad receding gums) approx. 4 hours earlier. I have heard that mouthwash inhibits the chances of saliva breaking down the HIV virus. My concern arises from the fact that I copmpleted on her breasts and she simply wiped this off with wet-wipes before getting hurriedly dressed (presumably to attend to her next client - her phone had been ringing constantly). Obviously, if she only wiped with wet wipes and didn't shower, and I know her previous client was only with her moments before, what are the chances of infected semen infecting me through cuts in my mouth or lips when I was licking her breasts?

As I also removed the condom (no visible breakage) and then masturbated to completion on her breasts, what are the chances of her vaginal fluid infecting me, as invariably the tip of my penis was touched repeatedly with her vaginal juices off of my hand (from when I removed the condom - which had been inside her for about 10-15 minutes - and from stimulating her vagina)? I also used wet wipes to clean my penis and am worried that again, vaginal fluids would have been rubbed from my shaft when wiping onto the tip and into the urethra.

My anxiety is exacerabted by the fact that I am now back with my girlfriend. My head was all over the place when I wasn't with her, which is why I made this stupid mistake. I am concerned not only for myself now, but as I have unprotected sex with my girlfriend that I could infect her and ruin her life and mine.I have, so far, not done this, but is it safe to do so?

HIV is my main concern, of course, but I'm also fretful of other STDs which I could have acquired from what I've described. How likely is it that I could have been infected with HIV or any other STD as a result of these occurences? She must have slept with hundreds of people who, in turn, have slept with many others. I am really worried.

[Teak]

HIV is transmitted by;
Unprotected penetrative anal and/or vaginal sex
Sharing works with other IV drug abusers
Mother to child

[jhguy011]

You can't get HIV from anything you described.  HIV is not infectious outside the human body.  

[Captain_Spoon]

Your responses are reassuringly dismissive, if that makes sense. For that I am grateful. Is it simply not possible, at all? I do not wish to dwell on here for eternity and re-post, so I will ask is it therefore okay and I guess, ethical, to have unprotected sex with my partner without fear of passing HIV or any kind of STD to her? I intend, of course, to remain faithful and never have sex with sex workers again.