Vaginal penetration and NO ejaculation

Hello,

Just looking for advice and reassurance.

I (female) had vaginal penetration with a man . He did not ejaculate inside me.

I had an INSTI 60 sec finger ***** antibody test on the 6th week. It came back negative. My doc said that i should re test on the 12th week for a conclusive test.

However, there are many posters and Docs on this website and other websites that say that testing at 6 weeks is somewhat reliable but not conclusive.

Can i take some reassurance from my test result considering my situation.

(From a worried female based in the UK)

[mojoman]

Your 6 weeks negative test is encouraging but not conclusive.
You need the 12 weeks test. But the odds are way on your favour.
In the future do use condom.
Goodluck.
Be well, be safe.

GOD Bless!

[ShirleyAnne]

Thank you for your response.

I wish the next 6 weeks would hurry up because i am so scared and worried.

The man with whom i had sex with said he is 100% clean as he had an HIV test a few years ago when he entered a long term relationship. But since that ended i dont know how many girls he as been with.

I wish my 6 weeks test was relaible....

[mojoman]

Don't think about it too much...try to make yourself bussy and times will fly...
Trust me! Been there, done that...
Again, goodluck
I'm here if you need me.

GOD Bless!

[Teak]

He's 100% clean. I'm clean, just took a shower, but I also have AIDS. Never take anyone’s word for their status unless you tested together and are in a monogamist relationship. Always use condoms and water base lube.

[ShirleyAnne]

Thank you for your comment.

I have been reading many of your posts and admire your honesty and frankness, which is more reliable than simple, kind words people use for reassurance.

In your opinion, would vaginal sex without ejaculation pose a risk?

[mojoman]

Unprotected is unprotected...so yes, vag sex even without ejaculation indeed pose a risk (because the possibility of pre-ejaculation fluid/precum)..

Sorry teak if I answer this question although it's for you...
FIGHT my friend, I'll pray for you...!

GOD Bless!

[ShirleyAnne]

OK. Thanks. I guess i have to sweat out the next 6 weeks to be on the safe side.

Many thanks guys.

[liondabou]

Don't worry too much, the 6 week test can almost be considered as conclusive. Among the HIV specialists I have asked say that the average time for a test to become positive is about 3 weeks and the difference among individuals isn't very significant. The vast majority who indeed get infected will show a positive test within 6 weeks. The 12 week period is for safety reasons, just to make sure and increase the margins.

[Teak]

The only conclusive test result is 3 months post exposure.

[ShirleyAnne]

Update:

had my post 90 days HIV test this morning - Negative.

Am so relieved. I cried with happiness.

Learnt my lesson. Always use a condom, unless HIV status is known from both sides.

Thank you everyone for their advice/support.

[manny1980]

I haven't participated in your thread before... BUT CONGRATS!!!!