Hi Community,
He told me he was HIV+ after the fact. We only engaged in oral sex but he put vaseline on the condom and I inserted my penis into his mouth. I had vaseline on my penis from using a pump before and then put a condom on so there was vaseline on my penis and then a little more on the outside of the condom. The oral lasted about 30 minutes, no ejac. Like a dummy, I forgot that vaseline can cause holes in the latex. Was this a risk? Should I get tested?